5 Tips to Help Her Relax

Give her a massage. The problem with massages is that everybody thinks they need to spend an hour or more to give a decent massage. As a result, you get tired from the thought and don’t do it! However, the truth is, even just 10 minutes can be extremely relaxing.

Don’t go for a body massage. Instead, give her a 10 minute scalp massage or a 10 minute foot (or leg) massage. This will be enough to calm her down and make her extremely grateful in the bedroom later!
Feed her comfort food. Sometimes, on our ‘off days’, nothing can bring back our good mood apart from our own childhood comfort foods. Mine is deep fried chicken served with a steaming bowl of white, fluffy rice. What about her?
By the way, so YOU don’t get stressed out, note that ordering food is ok! You don’t need to slave in the kitchen. Staples like a chilled bottled of wine and a box of her favorite chocolates are great ideas too!
Treat her to a warm bath. Nothing can be more relaxing than a long dip in a warm bath. So prepare the bath for her complete with scented candles and soothing music and tell her not to worry about a thing tonight. For a special treat, you can join her and give her a foot or scalp massage.
Don’t have a bath tub? No problem. That doesn’t mean you can’t give her a bath. Go right in there and soap her body lovingly and shampoo her hair as if she’s a queen!
It’s her day off. Designate a ‘day off’ for your lover. For instance, tell her that whatever it is she’s got planned on, say, Tuesday, you’ll take care of it. That day, she should just go out and get pampered or stay in and sleep, whatever she likes. If she’s got work, tell her to plan ahead and call in a day off or call in sick. And be sure to make it a weekday and not a weekend! The point is to give her one extra day where she can focus on just herself.
Nothing like a night devoted to giving her an orgasm! Did you know that sex can also act as a de-stressor? That is, when you remove any ‘duties’ that need to be performed and just focus on getting pleasure. So tonight, make it all about her; her pleasure; her needs; her orgasms. Lock the door and make sure you have everything (food, drink, handcuffs?) in your bedroom for at least an hour of lovemaking that’s dedicated only to giving her pleasure.
Do the above tips and not only will you relax her but you’ll get top marks too for being such a great partner! And you know just how much we women appreciate great partners, right?
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