Yes, you like the way your palms fit when you hold hands, but how do you know exactly if you are compatible in astrological terms?
When two people meet, their chances for a
compatible relationship depend on how their basic needs and personality
traits will mesh in the give and take of social or business
interactions.These can be determined by comparing a
companion's horoscope with your own natal chart. In doing a comparison,
first notice whether your companion has a predominance of planets in
one of the elements, more than four planets in one element. A
predominance of planets in one element tells you something about what
that person brings to the relationship, for example:
A person with a predominance of Fire signs brings an impulsive enthusiasm to the relationship.
A person with a predominance of Earth signs introduces a stabilizing influence on the relationship.
A person with a predominance of Air signs puts the relationship on an intellectual level.
A person with a predominance of Water signs will flood the relationship with deep emotional actions and reactions.
In
general, people are more likely to be compatible with each other when
their natal planets fall into compatible elements. The compatible
elements are fire with air, earth with water. That means if you have a
predominance of natal planets in the fire signs, you are more likely to
have a compatible relationship with someone who has a predominance of
natal planets in the air signs. If your companion's planets are mostly
in the earth signs, you can expect assorted difficulties depending on
which elements are involved.It is also important to note
how many of your planets are in the Cardinal, Fixed, and Mutable signs;
and where your companion's planets are. A predominance of planets in
one quality (i.e., five or more planets in a cardinal, fixed, or
mutable sign) tells you how someone is likely to act in a relationship.
For example:
A person with a predominance of Cardinal signs is anxious to see things get started.
A person with a predominance of Fixed signs is more likely to be stubborn and unyielding in a relationship.
A person with a predominance of Mutable signs will be adaptable and willing to make most of the compromises.
Now
it is important to note to see how your and your companion's planets
are distributed among the masculine and feminine signs. Most people
have an even balance of five-to-five, or six-to-four, between masculine
or feminine. If you and your companion each have the normal ratios of
planets, you should have no trouble getting along with each other. You
can work things out even when one of you has a gender ration of
seven-to-three while the other has a four-to-six ratio.If
there is a difference of one or two planets in masculine (or feminine)
signs between you and your companion you should have no trouble in
establishing a compatible relationship. If there is a difference of
three planets, you can still work things out. However, if there are
more than three planets between you and your companion, in one gender,
you will both have to work very hard to maintain a relationship. The
reason is that the dominantly masculine person's aggressive behavior
will threaten and harass the reserved, security-motivated feminine
person.If both people are dominated by the same gender
(either masculine or feminine), they share the same viewpoint and
approach to life. Initially, this can give them a strong feeling of
compatibility. However, they will soon feel a need for the kind of
stimulation that comes from defending mildly different points of view.
They will have to turn to someone else to meet that need.Someone with eight or more planets in a single gender may find it difficult to find a comfortable relationship.
