Are Accomplished Sexy Girls too Busy for Love?
You’ll be late for artisan an kite-making class and just run by him. Those of us who are constantly single know better than dwell on one question. However, at some point, it still nags us: Why am I perpetually single?
So I was all ears when my girlfriend Jana’s husband shared his enlightening opinion at a dinner party. “I’m glad I asked Jana out during college when I had the chance,” he said. “Sexy girls were scary enough then, but now you’re all so engaged and successful. It has made you unapproachable.”
Looking around the confounded faces of the sexy girls around me, I secretly pondered on this. Is he right? Are we becoming too busy to be in relationships?
According “Deal Breakers” author Bethany Marshall, Ph.D., “Single women are told to stay busy for a couple of reasons: It’s easier to meet guys when you’re out there trying new things, and being involved in productive distractions can hold off loneliness. However, if you don’t take it easy and slow down, you might not even notice when a guy is interested in you, or you may convey that you don’t have room in your life for anything else.”
Case in point: My single friend Alex, your quintessential multitasker. She is a 33-year old TV producer with a job at a illustrious media outfit, has her own apartment, takes French lessons, and conducts art history lectures at her local community college in her “spare time.” Oh, and she also runs marathons just for kicks. Men ballsy enough to approach her fall behind puffing by the roadside.
Or Julia Hoffman, 34, a research scientist who juggles her career with hobbies like film club, culinary classes, and yoga. Like many accomplished sexy girls, she has also involved herself in an after-work activity to meet men volunteering at a Jewish festival. She loved doing it so much that she is now in-charge of running the place itself. It’s pretty unfortunate that she is kept so busy by it that she is still single after three years.
Here is a good suggestion for all you sexy girls out there sharing the same situation: Stop wondering why he didn’t call and quit running on the treadmill for a bit. If don’t take a break and leave even a small window in your life for men, your soulmate might come along and you wouldn’t even notice. You’ll be late for artisan an kite-making class and just run by him.
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