Your guide on becoming proficient at flirting.

Jul 29
08:44

2009

Matt Fuller

Matt Fuller

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http://www.hookmeup.com.au Are you stuck for ideas on what to say to someone you would love to ask out, but just can't come up with the right words? Utilize our proven flirting advice and make the right impression.

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For some,Your guide on becoming proficient at flirting. Articles flirting is second nature, if you are one of these lucky naturals you really do possess a talent many singles envy. Sadly, flirting does not come naturally for most of us. If you have ever wondered how someone you know always seems to get the girl, you can be sure they have mastered the art of flirting and charm.

Attitude and spunk. A seasoned flirt isn't worried about taking a chance, and knows that the occasional rejection is all part and parcel of flirting. Be friendly, confident and genuine - Try making someone's day with flattery, it's the best way to make a girl or guy go weak at the knees.

Conversation. There is wide spread mis-conception among singles that flirting requires a killer opening line when you first hit on someone. Not the case, by simply saying hi, asking for some assistance, or asking for their view on something is much easier and more convincing than some cheesy pick up line.

Enjoy yourself. People are drawn to fun and interesting people. Smile! Be slightly mischievous and impulsive. You will soon start to attract attention from the opposite sex and begin laying the foundation for your expert flirting moves.

Have a plan. Successful flirts always have pre-planned conversation or actions as part of their flirting arsenal. Try focusing on a piece of clothing, (yours or theirs) comment on her perfume, or ask for her opinion about your aftershave.

Become the master of ceremonies. A good flirt is not passive and will take charge of the moment. Insist on paying the bartender for her drink, then pick up both your drinks and guide her over to your table. You will soon see if she is interested.

Be complimentary. Compliments that have the best impact are taking someone by surprise. It's the best way of making someone's day, and you will, at the very least receive a thank you and a smile so long as your compliment is whole hearted and not shallow.

Flirting online. Flirting with other singles when using online dating sites uses similar principles as offline flirting. Single people are usually more confident flirting online. Online dating removes the face to face nervous anxious feeling. Whilst its easier to flirt online, dating on the internet is far more competitive. As a single guy or girl, it's not uncommon to get hit on once or twice when you are on a night out. When singles post an online dating profile, it's not uncommon to get hit on 20-30 times a day.

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