Being Emotion, No Promotion

                 Being Emotion, No Promotion

Everyone in this world has his own temper and also there exist different ways to express feelings when people feel bad. For the mature people, they will hide the bad emotion if necessary, and not let the emotion to influence their work. But to the immature people, they are often swayed by emotion. Once they feel bad, the emotion speaks first, they can not get away from there feelings and make some impulsive decisions.

There are disciplines that will tell the truth: One is successful or not, depends on five factors;

Learning to control emotions

Keeping healthy

Having good interpersonal

Time management

Financial management

If you want to succeed, we must learn to manage the five factors, and why the emotion the first stands the first place? The health is in the second place? Because no matter how strong body you have, if you're feeling bad, it will affect your body, now a man succeed by 20% of the intelligence , 80% relied on emotional intelligence, so you have to control your emotions .emotional effect on people is very great. Do not rage for one small thing, this is not good.

As action star Sylvester Stallone said: the past does not mean now, just temporarily successful. Anything happen, there must be objective, and will help me! You have often to say to yourself, this is just to hone my personality in the rain.

So in life, what kind of mind you have to develop? You have to develop the "three no's", "three mores’" (do not criticize, do not complain or blame; more encouragement, more recognition and praise.) You will become a popular person by society. If you want your partner even more outstanding, very easy, always giving encouragement and praise to them. Even if they did have something wrong, then how should I do it? Is it the right time give them advice? You will find such a phenomenon in life, sometimes the advice will be accepted by other, but sometimes others will be angry if you give them advice. In fact, the proposed approach is the most important, just like the sandwich, praise, suggestions, and then praise!

Think about it, you praise a few people a day, some people may think that praise is touted, is flattering. There is a difference between praise and flatter, the praise has four characteristics:

1. Sincere

2. from the heart

3. To be accepted by the public

4. Selfless.

If you go with a strong purpose of praise, it is flattering. When you praise someone, you have to speak out loud, when you want to criticize others, we must bite your tongue!

And according to the research, scientists find out that listen to the music is the best way to release emotion, and make people’s nervousness and intense away. So a lot of people prefer to have a music box in their offices when they feel terrible and it will help a lot.