(J) Marshall Wade

Regal Relationships

You both will disagree with one another now and then; but don't worry, this is natural when a male and female begin discussing some subjects...such as: .......

The very first thing you want to confirm before you enter into a relationship is that the other individual is not some type of creepy thing...for if they are, its a fairly good bet that the relationship will not work out for very long.

Once you are sure they are not a creepy thing, one of the attributes you may wish to look for is their temperment.  Do they get irate just because the waitress accidently spilled a plateful of oysters, or a salad in their lap?  Or do they say something to the effect “Oh don't worry about it, that is what washers and dryers are for!”  If the latter is how they react, I would venture to say that they will not explode and begin hitting things when they are mad.

Another little asset you may wish to discover is if they have a good sense of humor.  For instance; your mother is coming over for a visit so she can meet your new friend, and your new friend says “Thats wonderful, do you think she would enjoy those new jokes I heard at the bar last Friday?”

If you are of the female peruasion, you may wish to check his memory by asking exactly what was the date and time you first met each other, where did you folks go, and what did you do? 

If you are of the male peruasion, you can ask her if she remembered that you were going fishing with the guys the night of your scheduled honeymoon...if she didn't remember it, tell here that she will have to re-set the wedding date---if she says OK, man have you got it made!

I am certain we all are in agreement when it comes to understanding that each and every one of us need our “space” from time to time.  Usually the male will want half of the bed, a seat at the dinning room table, and the couch when super bowl Sunday rolls around. The female just wants the male out of the house!

You both will disagree with one another now and then; but don't worry, this is natural when a male and female begin discussing some subjects...such as:  Does here dress make her look fat?  What time will he be home after a night on the town with the guys?  Should the new vehicle be colored blue or pink?  Should they stay at home Friday evening and watch baseball, or go out to dinner and dancing?

Its a no-brainer that there has to be trust between the man and the woman.  Of course, the woman wants to be sure that she can trust him to remember to put the toilet seat down when he's finished, go to work and bring home the bacon, and remember their wedding date, and her birthday with a rose to go along with the dinner at that new exensive restaurant.

The man, naturally, needs to be certain that he can trust her to never interrupt with a game is on television, keep his guns cleaned and blued, and serve him breakfast in bed on Saturdays and Sundays.

Moral support is extremely important and obviously necessary in any relationship.For instance:  when the female is depressed during that time of the month,  the male should always very attentive to her needs.  When the male just lost $100.00 on a basketball game, and tells the female that it was the money he was going to purchase her birthday gift with, the female should be very supportive of his sorrow.

One more topic that must be addressed is that of aging. Naturally, the love between the male and female doesn't change, it usually continues on.  However; I must admit that the female almost always appears just as beautiful as ever, and in some ways, becomes even more radiant.  The male of course, except for his appearance, doesn't change...he still watches all the sports, and expects his breakfast in bed.

Now I have a question---are you sure you wish to stay in that relationship?

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