Do You Want To Know Everything?
“My parents hated each other,” Anna said quietly.” I could feel the pain throbbing deep in Anna’s heart, pulsing out from her soul like cold waves. As I mentally blessed Anna and asked my guides to help me, a presence that identified itself as Anna’s father stepped in.
“My parents hated each other,” Anna said quietly, “but they never divorced.” I could feel the pain throbbing deep in Anna’s heart, pulsing out from her soul like cold waves. As I mentally blessed Anna and asked my guides to help me help her, a presence that identified itself as Anna’s father stepped in. There was an uneasy energy around him, as if he was trying to block something. Was his message filled with anger and, if so, would Anna be hurt by hearing from him? Should I censor his words? I thought. No, Anna had the right to hear from her father’s spirit – if that’s what she truly wanted. So I began the session by asking, “Anna, do you want to know everything?”
Asking “Do you want to know everything?” is a technique I learned from English medium Lisa Williams. When working one-on-one with a client, asking that question takes the onus off me to edit spirit’s words. I’ve had energies come in using salty language, and a couple female spirits identified themselves to their husbands using descriptions better suited to Playboy magazine. Because I didn’t edit spirits’ words, clients were always able to identify the presence.
Anna looked at the floor for a moment before answering, “Yes.”
In my mind, I asked the spirit to step closer to me. “He’s calling himself ‘father’. There are scars on his arms. He feels like a gruff man. He’s showing me a belt. And now he’s throwing it away. Do you understand this?”
Anna’s eyes filled with tears. “Yes,” she said, reaching for the box of tissues on my desk. “Oh, yes.”
I felt Anna’s sadness within me. “He’s bringing in another spirit. This motherly energy is gentler. She feels tired. I see her lying in bed. She wants to thank you for the roses.”
Anna looked bewildered. “What’s she doing with him? They couldn’t stand each other. They stayed together because they were so religious, the only thing worse than staying married was getting divorced.” Quietly, she added, “He was a brute. He made both our lives miserable.”
Anna’s father spoke to me, and I repeated his thoughts: “He’s sorry for the way he acted. It was the way he was brought up in the old country. Family men were expected to be tough and punishing. He’s asking for forgiveness—“
“Enough!” Anna said angrily. “I’m supposed to forgive him, and everything will be fine? Because of him, I’ve had three bad marriages. It’s his fault that my life is so awful!” Her teeth clenched. “No way! No way!”
Instantly, I no longer felt the spirits of Anna’s parents.
I closed my eyes and white-lighted the room to help clear away the negativity. Then I opened a drawer in my desk and took out my list of references – phone numbers, websites and reputable counselors who offer services I’m not qualified to give. I keep the list because I have another rule, thanks again to Lisa Williams: Never allow a client to leave emotionally distraught. And my rule: Always give the client hope.
I gently recommended that Anna talk with a therapist I trusted who specialized in anger management and family dynamics. Anna grudgingly wrote the woman’s phone number on a slip of paper, then silently left my office.
As I reflected on the session, I wondered if it was best than I told Anna everything about her father. Spirit whispered to me that sometimes, the only way people can move forward is to hear what’s blocking them from enjoying life. Anna has her journey, just as we all have our unique paths to walk. And spirit walks with us and encourages us to move toward the light of grace.
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Carolyn Molnar is a Toronto based Psychic Medium and Spiritual Teacher. She has over 30 years’ experience. She provides readings and also teaches others how to tap into their intuitive abilities. Her book, It Is Time: Knowledge From The Other Side, has made a real impact in how people understand intuition. She has been featured on radio, television and in print. Carolyn believes intuition is accessible to everyone. Please visit Carolyn at http://carolynmolnar.com/ and sign up to receive her monthly newsletter, "A Psychic's Message", and learn more about how to develop and use your intuition in a practical way.