Some advices to meet new people

Jun 7
06:12

2011

Alfonso Quijano

Alfonso Quijano

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If you experience some drastic change in your life, like changing school or house, obtain a new position at the office or having a trip out of your city or country, you will meet new people, which can be a challenge if you do not follow any guide or practical advices about that situation.

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To find new friendship can be very easy for certain persons with extrovert personalities,Some advices to meet new people Articles but be difficult for some of us, especially when you go to live at places where nobody knows you. Here there are some simple tips to go on and meet this challenge:Keep communication with your former friends. This permanent bond with your world known will help you to be yourself under the new circumstances. Your old friends are probably missing you and this can help them as well. However, bear in mind about your new situation that you face and all the possibilities that are in front to you for a bright future.Join a group to study. If you have changed school by going to college, then the easiest thing to do is to go and look for others that are in the same situation as yourself and join them in a group to study with them. That way you will meet other students who will help you to learn and get good grades.Meet others that share your same interests in daily activities. You might be a nature enthusiast that like hiking and bird watching with your night vision binoculars. You might also like to do some exercises at home or in some gymnasium. You should consider to continue with those trips to nature or initiate a new exercise program with others joining to take part of it.Try to keep technology away when you meet someone new. Sending messages or speaking on your mobile phone, checking your mail with your portable equipment or listening to music with your digital mp3 player might create an impediment when having a conversation with new friends, by showing little respect to others and causing the impression that you are not too friendly. If you have concerns about safety at home and you have installed some house alarm systems and real or fake security cameras, you might want to wait a little before inviting new friends at your house.Try to keep away your problems from your new acquaintances. Before sharing very personal topics or your more intimate problems, you must know very well the other persons to know if they are deserving of confidence and if they will be loyal to you in any given situation. Sure enough, nobody wants to begin a friendship with anyone who in the first instance proves to be troubled. We all have problems, some more serious than others, but we must not be a load for anyone, unless they show that are real friends in whom you can trust.Be genuine about yourself. Forget about being someone different from who you are and you will be on the safe side later on.Finally, here are some recommendations about having a certain level of judgment when choosing whom to begin friendships. Look for those who are amicable in your workplace and those who behave in a way that others are always away from. In addition, with regard to real friendship, always you must remember that quality is better over quantity; that is, to have some very good friends is better than having many bad acquaintances.

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