There
are several reasons that may lead to sexually active men losing interest in
making love.Some of the reasons are
listed below:
There
are several reasons that may lead to sexually active men losing interest in
making love. In such a case the men has to face several humiliations from his
partner. Hence understanding the causes and treating the condition is essential
to have a pleasurable sexual life and enjoy virility. Some of the reasons are
listed below:
The onset of Impotency or Erectile Dysfunction (ED) with an
increase in age can lead to loss of interest in making love. Loss of libido
cannot be equated to ED, but a defunct male reproductive organ can lead to a
loss in the ability and desire to make love. Impotency can be treated with
several drugs such as Viagra, Cialis, etc.
Performance anxiety can also lead to a diminished interest in
making love. Some men may have elevated levels of anxiety during sexual
activities that involve worries about premature ejaculation, satisfying the
partner and other sexual performance anxieties. Such increased pressure on men
to perform on the sexual front can lead to a lowered desired to make love.
Stress that can be related to job, relationships as well as
self confidence and self-esteem can also lead men to lose interest in making
love. If men are not satisfied by their jobs, find their lives and jobs less
challenging and monotonous and do not have sufficient levels of self-worth,
then they can numb themselves sexually leading to a diminished desire to make
love.
A number of chronic illness and medical conditions that
afflict men may make them lose interest in making love. Diseases and conditions
such as thyroid disorders, alcoholism, cancer, diabetes, high blood pressure,
cardiovascular abnormalities and depression result in several mental and
physical deficits such as decreased blood flow to the penile region leading to
a diminished desire to make love..
The intake of certain medications to treat underlying medical
conditions can also lead to men losing interest in making love. SSRI’s that are
used to treat depression, substance and alcohol abuse, hypertension medications
as well tranquilizers can lead to a diminished desire in men to make love.
The quality of a relationship with a partner can also
determine whether men lose interest in making love. Just like women, the
uninhibited sexuality and sexual desire in men are also dictated by the
happiness quotient of the relationship. A relationship that is full of
frustration, anger, power struggles and disappointment can transfer to the
bedroom leading to diminished desires to make love.
In modern day society, the lack of space and individuality in
a relationship can sap the energy and zing out of it leading to loss of
interest in men towards making love. Intimacy does not mean togetherness that
lasts 24/7, but requires space and time for oneself. Separation, even if it is
for a few hours is essential in all modern relationships to rejuvenate and
revitalize the partnership thereby increasing the desire to make love.
Some men develop new found love and respect for their
partners after the birth of a child and sometimes this respect may act as an
impediment towards men eroticizing their partners, leading to loss of interest
in making love. Also, increased care of the child can lead to increased
exhaustion resulting in diminished desire in men to make love.
Reduced
interest in making love does not only incur humiliation from the spouse but
also reduces self confidence. The reduced self confidence is what which in turn
causes reduction in libido or interest in intercourse. Hence this may become a
vicious cycle degrading your visibility.
The aforementioned reasons why men lose interest in making love would
help you understand the issue well and address it better.
