Sex Game: The Score Board

The “Score Board” is a sex game, in which you “score” each others accomplishments. The purpose is to learn how to please your partner even better by receiving feedback. You give your partner a rating from one to ten (one being “I am hardly excited.” and ten being “I am in heaven now.”), on how well she is performing at the moment. You can use it for every sexual activity; it is most often used for teaching your partner how you want to receive oral pleasure.

This is how it is done:

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First you have to talk this through, to avoid misunderstandings. You do not want to reduce your sex-life to a number, of course. You simply want to have fun and learn better how to please each other, nothing more and nothing less.

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The first time you play this game, it will feel a bit awkward, especially when you give low numbers, which will be hard to avoid sometimes. But you will notice: the more often you play, the higher the numbers get.

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To make it exciting and stimulating, you can add some comments instead of just giving numbers. For example: “Yeah baby, that feels good, eight!” “Five, a little bit more pressure, yeah, seven...” “Seven, oh this feels good, eight, faster, faster, nine…”

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This game is most often played to “train” your partner to give the kind of oral pleasure you like most, but there are other ways you can use it:
-Improving your erotic massage skills.
-Finding the right rhythm when you have sex.
-Finding out how rough or how gentle your partner wants to be touched.
-Finding out how (dirty) your partner likes you to talk to her.

5.Always end this game with some good pillow-talk: thank your partner for her willingness to play this kind of games, for giving you so much pleasure.

When you never get feedback, you just have to guess what you do right and what you do wrong. Great lovers are not born, they are made; and games like this can guide you in the right direction.

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