After the Breakup – Is There a Second Chance?

Apr 20
07:14

2010

Elena Morgan

Elena Morgan

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You’re wondering, “After the breakup, is there a second chance?” The good news is that there are second chances in relationships. Heck, if that weren’t true, then most marriages would never have happened. But don’t take it for granted. There is usually just one shot at a second chance.

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Patience and Discipline Are Virtues

It’s important to realize that it will take some time.  Just as it took time for the relationship to sour,After the Breakup – Is There a Second Chance? Articles so too will it take some time to put it back together.  A relationship on the mend can’t be rushed and treated haphazard.  Remember, you have one shot at a second chance.

You’ll need to call on your two most important virtues – Patience and Discipline – to have any chance at getting your ex back.  Your patience will allow for the necessary time to pass and your discipline will ensure that key mistakes are avoided.

If you’ve read my previous articles, you’ll remember that your initial focus, following the breakup, needs to be on yourself.  Taking the time to mend yourself, and get your mind, body and spirit back in shape, will not only allow for the necessary passage of time, you’ll be too busy and enjoying it too much to notice how quickly it passes.

Get Back on the Radar

After 2 or 3 months, you’ll be prepared for the next stage which is when the initial contact is made.  This is where you need your discipline.  With this contact, preferably by voice message, you simply want to get back on his radar. You must not ask to see him or indicate any desire to.  This isn’t the time for apologies or explanations. There will be time for that later.

With just a touch of nonchalance and a slight cheer in your voice, you want to say something like, “Hey David, (slight chuckle) I saw something on the news last night that made me think of you, so I thought I’d call and see how you’re doing.  Oh well, hope things are going OK. Bye.”  You want to make sure your voice resonates with confidence. No pauses, and definitely no melancholy tones.

Your ex will call you back.  And you’ll have your second chance. Just make sure you’re ready with a back story on what you saw that reminded you of him.  Once past that, the next words out of your mouth and the next steps you take are crucial.  I suggest that you don’t go it alone.  Use an expert source for sound guidance: http://reviveourlove.com

 

 

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