Ways to Talk Dirty to a Guy - Listen First, Talk Last

Oct 11
07:04

2010

Rufus Steele

Rufus Steele

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There are actually quite a few different ways to talk dirty to a guy but the first and best lesson to learn? Listen to your man first, leave the talking till last. But doesn't that make a mockery of the idea of talking dirty?

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I would like to say there are hundreds of ways to talk dirty to a guy. In fact,Ways to Talk Dirty to a Guy - Listen First, Talk Last Articles I will say that, but let me first say talking about sex can be different across cultures, personalities, and hang-ups. The hang-ups are really the biggest difference, because some women are more uninhibited with their sexual talk with their partners, they tell them all the nasty, dirty things they want to do to them, pinning their hands against the bed as they begin to act like a ravaging lioness in the wild. The way a person talks to another about sex could also boil down to their personality. A shy woman would likely steer very clear of talking about sex with her man, at least at first. But communicating those dirty little bits of information to a lover can be truly orgasmic, both in and outside of the bedroom. One way to approach dirty talk is to do it over the phone. Some prefer this as it gives them an excuse to talk naughty with their lover whilst still maintain a 'comfort zone' by not actually seeing their response etched across their face. Others feel it separates them from rejection enough that they can become uninhibited to talk about sex. Let's face it - some of us are prudes that don't want to talk too heavily about rubbing hands along our partner's fair trade routes. We would rather stay silent and risk losing our favorite trade route to a neighboring country than risk a bit of embarrassment. This is why a phone conversation can bring dirty talk into a relationship with relative ease. While the phone may work for some, others prefer their dirty talk via text messages. They may be masochists who have a penchant for sore thumbs or they just type fast on their Smartphone. Either way we know the dirty talk done through a multimedia device can also be augmented with media. Duh! Things get hot and heavy enough, then one of you will be sending pictures of their nether regions (do double check the number you are sending them to though - at least twice!!) and hoping to God the recipient doesn't plaster their god given talents all over the internet via Facebook or some other handy social site. If you're searching for ways to broach the subject with your partner, then you will need to listen up. Dirty talk is a normal and often viable relationship tool. It helps you understand your partner sexually in a way you would not be able to from finger roaming and kissing. The best ways to talk dirty to a guy would be to be yourself, be sexy, confident, and know that he's so into you because he wouldn't even be texting or on the phone in the first place if he wasn't. He wants you, so let him know how bad you want him. Expose yourself to him, in fantasy and maybe in a pictured reality (just be safe!). The best way to approach talking dirty is to free your mind from the anchors of doubt. Set yourself into catty super girl mode and know that he would love to gobble you up.

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