How bad yesterday!

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Yesterday evening, one of my best friends told me that she broke up with her boyfriend who is also one of my best friends. I was so upset and frustrated. And it is really weird and irksome that I have learned some news about my best friends’s breaking up this year so far.

 

I know from deep heart that they love each other very much. They have been a couple for almost 4 years. When we were just university freshmen, they started to be together. And ever since we have being witnessed their sharing happiness and sorrow. They went through a lot with each other’s company. Four years is long enough for two to “love till death sets them apart“.

 

But they did break up in the end. How should I handle this, as a shared friend of them and a girl in love herself? To be honest, I got so discouraged. You may wonder why they chose to do this. And I will tell you because they both know clearly that there won’t be a happy ending to their love story. Up till now, they have underwent separation for more than half a year. And this would last for at least another 4 years. I hate to say this, but girls are not made to wait. Time withers them, their appearance, their energy, and last but the most important, their youth. Till then she will be about 30, an incredible age for a girl. Yes, she could still call herself like this now. But another 4 years would undoubtedly deprive this right. What’s worse, it is hard to say if there can be any “result” even if she agreed to wait for him, because the boy’s family refuses to consider about them since he has to study and work. The long-distance thing would not work out, and there is no blessing from the loved ones, how could this go on?

 

I do not know how to comfort them. We all thought about this possibility long ago. But we did not imagine the day would come so soon. In fact I think for things like this, any day is too soon.

 

Though I am bad at comforting, I called them respectively. She was crying, can not find a way to go to sleep. He was playing on-line games: runescape accounts selling . I asked about how his feeling was. He said, “What do you mean by my feelings now?” Nothing. Nothing happened. This is just a dream, and you happened to run into ours. Don’ worry. Wake up tomorrow and everything will be the same as before.” It is because I know him very much that I started to worry about him. More normally he acts, sadder he is. This time he must be so hurt, too.

 

Today I woke up and started to think about what he said last night. Wonder how are they now?

 

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