There are some people due to the economic downturn that have taken themselves out of the dating ballgame. That is of course their right but in many ways it is not a good option. A better choice is to stay in the game and use more imagination.
The numbers keep rolling in and they are not good. Companies are doing some mass layoffs while others are just closing down altogether. You can see some examples of this by going to your local mall. Chances are you are going to see more than the usual empty spaces adjacent to some businesses that are barely hanging on.
This downturn is not only causing many companies to make hard choices but millions of individuals across the country and around the globe. Among those individuals are singles in the dating scene who through no fault of their own are finding the economics of dating a tough proposition to navigate. In the article "That Game We Play: Dating in a down economy", Lacey Storer of the St Joe News writes, "Some guys are getting more creative with their dates, or looking for cheaper options to the traditional dinner and a movie. Others are just avoiding dating altogether."
While that passage may focus on single men it applies equally to single women as well as the rest of us. Everyone is feeling the crunch.
But the last thing you want to do is take yourself out of the game altogether. Sure you can wait for things to improve before you get back into the dating scene but none of us knows when that will be. In the meantime isolating yourself from the social contact that comes with dating can have a not so good effect on your attitude and thought process.
So what's the solution? Date inexpensively but creatively. For instance.
1. Games and Puzzles
Monopoly anyone? How about a good game of Scrabble? Maybe during your travels you've come across one of those puzzles with five hundred or more pieces. Never really been into puzzles? To each their own but give it a shot anyway. Dating relationships are about give and take. And who knows? You may find being with someone enthusiastic about puzzles and games rubs off on you.
2. Music Days
Got some favorite music? Sure you do. So does the person you are dating. Invite them over occasionally and tell them to bring some of their favorite music. What they have may not be to your exact taste but again healthy dating is about equal give and take. Leave the TV off. With television you pretty much have to stop what you are doing periodically to focus on what's happening on the screen. Music on the other hand can keep the conversation flow going while the two of you dance and laugh the evening away.
3. Take the Walk
We are a nation of motorists and we love our cars. That's why it is good from time to time to get out and stretch the legs. It's not only healthy but it can strengthen the connection with your dating partner. Where do you go? Anywhere. Go to the park, check out a historical monument you have always been curious about. Walk to some busy area and get lost in the crowd, do some window shopping or find a nice cozy spot and watch the sunset.
No it is not going to be easy to make some of these adjustments. Many of us get into a dating ritual that we are quite comfortable with even if part of that ritual is the spending of money.
If you are in any kind of dating relationship one way or the other you are going to spend money. That's not going to change anytime soon. However by coupling it with being creative on a more regular basis you can extend those funds a lot further and add some new exciting dynamics to your dating relationship.
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