Making a Man Commit

Should I ask for commitment or wait for him to ask me? I want to get married and have a family. Dating for two years is not my plan.

If you are wondering about those things that means that you are prepared to take the relationship to the next step. But does he? If it seems like a difficult task to convince your man to have a committed relationship, get engaged and announce a wedding date, you need to evaluate whether your boyfriend is actual commitment material.

See, man have their biological clocks too. But commitment means more to a man than just going to church and spending money on a big wedding. Perhaps he is taking this decision more seriously than you are. Men are usually more damaged in divorce than women are, thus making a commitment decision for a man takes longer. You may be ready to start dating exclusively after a few dates. You may be ready to get an engagement ring after six month. But your boyfriend is not in a hurry to propose.

You, as a woman can do certain things to make your boyfriend move toward commitment faster and to propose quicker. But before you do, there are things you have to look at and evaluate in order to help him make up his mind. In order to see where your man stands in relation to commitment, look at the situation objectively. That will give you a starting point in beginning your negotiations toward commitment. To start, check out what does commitment means to men at commitment advice