Consulting Gynaecologists about sexual well-being still a tug of war among the unmarried youths

It is obviously a dilemma to know that you have missed your periods with a 95% chance of being pregnant. This is not intended, but due to poor predictions, or improper use of a condom or failure of the contraceptive pill unwanted pregnancies occur.She was only 19, when she became sexually active with a boyfriend who had been sexually active in the past years. She really loved to preserve herself even though culture-wise that was the right thing to do. She says that as time went on, she couldn’t resist the feelings she had for this young man and burst into sharing intimacy with him. The last thing she knew was being pregnant.Being in a conservative culture, she thought about the depths and shallows of her pregnancy and decided to handle the pregnancy. As time went on, things became complicated to the extent of losing her body weight and being bedridden for weeks.After realizing, the sexual connection was cut off, but before that, she used to experience vaginal discharge, pain during sex, pelvic pain, painful periods, hectic nights, and general body weakness.She hesitated on seeing a gynecologist due to her past stories and so on until when she couldn’t handle no more.This is one of the story among the many stories unheard from the young youth and the best gynaecologist in India explains that the sexual health of many girls is in jeopardy due to the fear that befalls them once they think of seeing a gynaecologist.Many young girls are afraid of the questions like “ are you married”  the gestures that the doctor may show and also the fear that the whole hospital staff may end up knowing about her sexual problem.Commonly it is not only the girls that are afraid of meeting gynaecologists, but also the males. Most males, just like girls, prefer sharing their sexual problems with their friends than meeting a doctor.A word to the YouthMuch as you may be frightened about meeting a gynaecologist, not all gynaecologists are the same. Pick an understanding gynaecologist because silence today may lead to infertility in the future.