Plastic Surgery - Dealing With People Staring

Getting more attention after plastic surgery is a given. Friends and family members can't help but see the difference in your appearance. Coworkers that you spend time with are going to see the changes the minute you head back into work. Most patients prepare themselves for the reaction that they are going to get from people they know. However, it is often interesting to deal with reactions that come from complete strangers.

Staring

After plastic surgery, there are going to be people that stare. Some are going to be looking and trying to determine whether or not the changes to the body were the result of some type of operation. You have probably overheard a conversation that often comes up surrounding breast augmentation and implants. People often attempt to guess whether they are real or natural or whether the woman has had some type of enhancement.

There is no doubt that starting can be uncomfortable while other times, it can be taken as a non-verbal compliment. In some cases, if the staring is starting to become a problem, consider ignoring it or removing yourself from the situation. In some cases, the staring is unintentional and may just be the result of someone checking out the plastic surgery changes to your body or face. Don't assume that every instance of staring is bad. Sometimes, it should be seen as a compliment.

Comments and Compliments

Aside from starting, many men and women are not prepared to deal with the compliments and comments that are often made after plastic surgery. For example, a cashier might mention how great you look or suggest that you are here with your sister when in reality, it is your daughter. These types of compliments can add to a person's confidence and reaffirm that plastic surgery was the right decision. When this happens, there is no need to explain the type of procedure that was performed or when it was done. You have the ability to just say thank you and walk away.

Be aware that not everyone is going to have nice things to say and compliments to pass out. There are those that are going to be outspoken about their complaints or concerns about what you choose to do. In these instances, make sure that you remember that the decision that you made was for you and you alone. Others and their opinions don't matter.

Elective operations usually create noticeable changes and it is important to be prepared for whatever comes your way. Be prepared for both the good and the bad when it comes to other people's opinions and make sure that you are not looking for affirmation about your operation from others.