Divorce Oklahoma City - How To Save Money Through Uncontested Divorce

Okay so you and your spouse are unhappy together.  In fact, if you are honest with yourself, you and your spouse are very unhappy.  You have made several attempts to revive the marriage.  Unfortunately, each attempt has failed and now it is time for you to face the inevitable truth that divorce is imminent.  At this point in time, you and your spouse know that divorce is the right option and you are ready to move forward with it, but neither of you are quite sure how to proceed. 

Before you move forward with the divorce, read the rest of this article.  A lot of couple jump headlong into divorce without even really knowing what they are getting themselves into.  By jumping in headlong, the spouses end up wasting months of time and spending thousands of dollars on unnecessary attorney fees.  Because you are reading this article, you and your spouse will not be jumping headlong into divorce, instead you will be hoping and skipping through the divorce.

The four tips listed below are designed to set you up for success.  What we mean when we use the phrase ‘set you up for success’, is that if you choose to implement these four tips into your divorce process, you and your spouse will have months of wasted time and save thousands of dollars on unnecessary attorney fees.  That being said, here are the four tips:

Tip #1 – Make Up Your Mind Early That Your Divorce Is Going To Be Uncontested.  If you make up your mind that your divorce is going to be uncontested, then you are thinking like a winner.  Assuming that you and your spouse are able to communicate with each other without having each conversation turn into a cussing, screaming brawl, then you should be able to have an uncontested divorce.  Again just to rehash, think like a winner, your divorce is going to be uncontested from beginning to end.

Tip #2 – Learn How To Have An Uncontested Divorce.  These article provides you with the fundamentals that you need to know in order to have an uncontested divorce.  Our advice is that you take these fundamentals and apply them to your divorce situation.  However, if after having read this article, you fell that you still lack sufficient knowledge about how to proceed, then we encourage you to continue to research ‘uncontested divorce’ online.

Tip #3 – Have Good Communication With Your Spouse.  Having good communication between you and your spouse does not necessarily mean that you and your spouse are friends.  It just means that you and your spouse are able to take with each other in a civilized manner and are able to communicate well enough that you are able to resolve each one of the major issues.

Tip #4 – Do Not Surprise Your Spouse.  Divorce is a very uncertain time for both you and your spouse.  That feeling of uncertainty can cause you and your spouse a lot of turmoil.  Our advice is that you do not add to the turmoil by surprising your spouse with more bad news.  Bad news, for purposes of your divorce, includes you hiring a divorce attorney out of the clear blue, up and suddenly moving out of the marital house, and filing for divorce suddenly and unexpectedly.  Take our advice, before you take any one of these actions, discuss the matter with your spouse.  Doing so will ensure that your divorce process flows smoother and hopefully, with a little luck, will ensure that your divorce is uncontested.