How to Meet Women Online: The Overlooked Secrets of Social Network Profiles

You want to know something funny? There are several million, no TENS OF MILLIONS of men trying to meet and date women online, and it's the same number for men who are trying to do that on Facebook, MySpace or Bebo, and on and on.

In all the time I've been meeting and dating women on the internet via around 11 different, social networking sites, I've discovered an amazing secret that seems so obvious but eludes so many of us.  

You see, 99% of the men online use only ONE THIRD of the full potential of their profiles, while the remaining two thirds only SERIOUSLY INJURE the chances of them ever achieving success. And that's when they're knowing what they're doing with that one third of potential, or things are sure to get even WORSE for them (how does RUINING your chances online forever and ever sound?)  

But What's The Cause Of This Mass Murdering Of The Chance To Get A Date Via The Internet, By So Many Men?   

It's NOT using all the areas of your profile that are available to you, because you either:

• DON'T know they EXIST, or:
• DON'T know how to USE them

On social network sites like MySpace, there are EIGHT profile areas (and them I'm grouping some into one BIG area) you can use to MULTIPLY the amount of women who will message YOU first, and to MAXIMIZE the effect of the messages you reply to so you'll have more women eagerly awaiting your reply than you can handle.  

And the brutal truth is: the vast majority of males who are looking to get a date on the Web are only using THREE of these profile areas and, if they DO know about other profile areas, they DON'T know how to use them to create attraction.  

Do you understand what this means?  

It means that the majority of their profile (2/3 or 66%) is WASTED SPACE and if the other three areas are well done (and they almost never are), the huge amounts of wasted space will SABOTAGE their attempts at meeting women. I highly recommend you check out the profiles of other MEN after reading this, just so you'll see how much they SUCK (so you'll know how much women you can meet when you do it right because other men don't stand a chance against your profile).  

And it means that you, IF you know what these profile areas are and how to insanely improve them so not even a tenth of an inch of space on your profile is wasted because EVERYTHING is designed to create attraction, that you'll have an unfair advantage over every single rival for as long as you keep your profile up there! Let alone the effects on the number of messages you'll receive (think a TENFOLD increase in very interested responses from women)  

Let's dig in:  

The Hidden 8 Hidden Profile Areas That Will Seriously BOOST The Number Of Conversations With Hot Women You'll Have Online A.S.A.P.  

1. Photos
She'll look at your photos FIRST, because a picture will tell er so much more then just some words..plus it tells her if you're cute or not. You can use them to let her know: she has competition (photos of you & other women), that you are a REAL guy and not some guy who's trying to be smooth (photos of you & family or friends), that you have a sense of class & style (your wardrobe and the people you hang out with on your photos, etc.), and more...see my other topic in this board for some more worldclass tips.  

Things to do

• Show her you're a desirable man with options, who she'll have to fight for and who's comfortable around women: include 2 photos of you hanging out with cute women
• Don't try to be mister smooth and show women you're a real person, a people's person: include a photo of you and family, and 1 of you and friends
• Make her desire to join your exciting life: include some photos of you on vacation, traveling, or in beautiful settings (sunset, in front of a waterfall, etc.)
• Smile, once upon a time there was this little research project where women were given photos of two guys, one smiling and the other with a straight face, and asked which one was more attractive...guess what? The smiling bald guy won from the straight faced guy that still had hair

2. Descriptions
The area where you can talk freely about yourself, women watch HOW you talk about closely to find out who you are: it shows them if you're confident, if you're exciting or just some boring guy, if you're attractive or a total wussy, or a needy guy, etc. From your descriptions she can tell whether or not you have standards and an exciting life she would like to join.  

Things to do

• Don't be boring...and use humor in your descriptions, use some emoticons (those :P and (A) and :) thingies, as they add EMOTIONAL impact, hence the name) and EMPHASIZE some words to again give everything you say more IMPACT
• Tell about crazy experiences, wild adventures or your greatest passions and talk about it VIVIDLY: no I went to A, B and C but sensory details (how the setting smelled, sounded, felt, the colors and shapes) and emotional drama (how did you feel: anxious, happy, sad, enthusiastic, delighted, in love, etc.). Why? Because it lets her imagine it like she's there herself, which makes it compelling to talk to you more..because you tell such great stories

3. Comments
This is the area where a woman can see how OTHER people talk about you, which tells her if you're a social guy who's comfortable around women (and not some nervous introvert), whether she has competition (making her jealous and want to fight for you), if you have fun and an exciting life and so forth.  

Things to do

• Women receive 30 to 50 messages from men PER DAY, but only a handful of comments per week, so don't hesitate to drop a comment and see what happens, because you'll stand out MUCH faster and standing out online among millions of competitors is half the victory Mr. Reader
• Let other women happily chat away in your comment area and do the same in theirs: it lets other women know they have competition and that you're a desirable man..(and I don't have to tell you how jealousy can rush things ahead because she just HAS to have you all to herself, do I?)

4. Interests
What you like and dislike, it's the standard yes/no kinda questions on your profile, which she'll have a look at to see if you have things in common. But there are cool things you can do with interests to create massive amounts of curiosity and attraction.  

Things to do

Don't be a good boy and fill in everything with boring crap, use humor like this:

• Hobbies: baseball, going out, crocodile wrestling, movies.

I call this technique the odd one out (remember that childhood game?), and you can use it to make her laugh, to be outrageous or even slight naughty (Hobbies: working out, mountain biking, posing for the Playgirl)

5. Groups
Social networks have all kinds of groups (like the Asian Corner group and the Latino Pride group or whatever), and being a member not only allows you to talk to a woman easier (by talking about a common interest-- the group you two are in) and there are many other ways too: forums, blogs of someone else (or yourself), etc.  

Things to do

• List every single place you've ever gone to school or worked. This will make it a lot easier for people who have known you in the past to find you on Facebook or MySpace etc. Also, when class reunions come up, you'll be invited! It's also easy to look for women who went there and easily start a conversation about it because you have something in common (it's meeting women in college, AFTER college now you're don't have to deal with puberty anymore)
• Join groups of your hobbies, likes, passions and activities, because having fun conversations with women who SHARE your passions is so easy, a baby could do it

6. Friends
Friends can tell a lot about a guy: how open minded he is (does the NYC guy only know New Yorkers or other people too? do you have black, latino or whatever nationality friends too?) and being open minded equals spontaneity, which women love. If you have female friends you can use that to let a woman know you have options, to create jealousy, competition, and there's lots more!  

Things to do

• Let them know you're a confident, open minded and desirable man...and have some female friends to create jealousy, have friends from all walks of life to show that you've been to places and are a REALLY social guy (this is social proof: that you have a life of your own and that you're comfortable around other people, and women)
• The girl you sent a message has female friends you probably wouldn't find on your own because they set their profiles to visible to friends only or live in the smallest towns that you didn't even know existed, so why not message them too? Her male friends (and yours too) also know women you won't find that easily, why not message them too?

7. Media
Sure you can put music or videos of Mortal Kombat, Star Wars, bloody violence and death metal bands on your profile, but the fact of the matter is: that's not what compells most women to find out more about you. Outrageous videos do attract women however, funny videos do too, r&b music does that as well, and so forth.  

Things to do

Show a hottie that you're a trendy guy who stays current, that you know what women like and that you have good taste, and include some r&b, soul or nice & slow pop on your profile playlist. Why? Because women love a trendsetter, and a man who knows what they like.  

8. Design
Women like a man with a sense of style, with good taste..and a profile that looks better than just plain black & white simply compells women LESS than a profile with a cool background, a nice design, etc.  

Things to do

Use contrasting colors to make sure women can read EVERYTHING you have to say (plus, don't overdo the happy happy factor with bright yellow OR the I'm as despressed as people can get look with gray and black)