Seeing your ex for the first time since the breakup? What should you do? What do you say? What subjects or topics are off-limits? Learn exactly how to handle the reunion date, and what you can do to make sure your ex boyfriend wants to see you again and again.
If you've worked hard to get your boyfriend back after an unwanted breakup,
the reunion date is key. This is the last hurdle you need to overcome before getting back together, and this one little meeting can really make or break the future of your relationship.
Seeing your ex boyfriend for the first time since breaking up can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. On one hand you're extremely psyched to see him after being apart for so long... but on the other you're trying real hard not to make any mistakes that might drive him away. Say or do the wrong thing, and you can easily send your man running in the opposite direction.
That said, there are a number of hard and fast rules you need to follow when meeting up with your ex boyfriend. Below is a brief list of do's and don'ts:
Put Your Best Foot Forward
It should go without saying that you want to look your best when seeing an exboyfriend, but you also need to
feel your best. Going into this meeting while feeling awkward or shy can really hurt your chances of a successful reunion date, as you'll immediately set the mood to something a lot more serious than it needs to be.
Meeting your ex boyfriend should be fun, and you should definitely treat it that way. Laugh, joke, and enjoy his company. Be confident, cool, and relaxed. If it helps, try to imagine how casually you talked while still being together with him, and even play the part. The more at ease you can keep yourself, the more your ex boyfriend will be also. This will help let his guard down, so you can decide exactly what he's thinking when it comes to the possibility of renewing your relationship.
Don't Talk About Your Past Relationship
Talking about past good times is a great way of reconnecting with your ex. You share cherished memories of times when you were together, and re-living these experiences can help bring out the emotional bonds your ex boyfriend still feels toward you.
Even so, the last thing you want to do is talk about your past
relationship. This invariably leads to talking about how it ended, and could even lead to one or both of you placing blame. This isn't what you want when you first meet up with your ex. Right now you need to keep the mood light, easygoing, and fun.
Make It Fast - Leave Him Wanting More
Another common mistake women make when seeing an ex boyfriend is to hang around far too long. You don't want a long drawn-out dinner date with your exboyfriend, or even a dinner date at all. Instead, offer to meet your ex for coffee or lunch. The shorter you can keep things between you, the better the date will go.
By keeping this first meeting as quick and casual as possible, you're ensuring that your ex boyfriend will want to see you again. And if you've been trying to get your ex back for a while now, what's another few days or weeks? Trying to accomplish too much too soon can make the date turn awkward very quickly, and that's the last thing you want if you're hoping to reverse your breakup.
Getting Your Ex Boyfriend To Meet or See You
Just getting to the point where your ex has agreed to see you is a very good sign that he might want you back. He's already shown significant interest in seeing you face-to-face, and if he wanted nothing more to do with you he wouldn't have agreed to meet at all.
If however, you're having trouble getting to the point where your ex boyfriend asks to meet up with you? Stronger tactics might be necessary. There are methods and techniques you can use to renew his interest,
turning your ex's attention back to you. Applying even the most basic of these reversal techniques can accelerate the process of winning back your boyfriend, both in heart and mind.
