Relationship Tips: How To React To Someone Meddling in Your Relationship

Mar 16
10:53

2012

Bellaisa Filippis

Bellaisa Filippis

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Relationships are trying enough without your sister or close friend attempting to ‘make your relationship stronger’ or, worse, trying to do away with ...

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Relationships are trying enough without your sister or close friend attempting to ‘make your relationship stronger’ or,Relationship Tips: How To React To Someone Meddling in Your Relationship Articles worse, trying to do away with your relationship! There is nothing worse than someone meddling in your relationship steadily.

I personally experienced a good friend who would regularly meddle in my brand new relationship (now my husband). She would explain to me what who he really was and how he really viewed life and she would tell me that maybe we shouldn’t take it to the next level yet.

Oh, You are probably thinking...’Well, she had your best interest at heart!’, but you are dead wrong!

I regularly questioned as though her nosiness was part of something bigger. And it turns out, as I down the line found out, she was interested in my boyfriend and wanted to get him away from me.

She didn't have my best interest at heart and we have not been friends for a long time.

It may not always be someone trying to steal your man or woman though. There will be some times when they seriously feel that they are making your relationship better. This is when you need to make a move and tell them a few essential facts that they need to understand.

Keep in mind, if you are in an abusive relationship or a really unhealthy relationship than your friend, loved one or whoever is probably attempting to help you see the light; or if you are heading for heartache in some way than that is another good reason to listen to what they are trying to say.

Then again, if they are being nosy and opinionated then you should want them to stop meddling and leave you alone.

Following are 3 things to say to that meddling person.

1. YOU Are Not a Part of This Relationship!

A sexual relationship has many layers to it.  Most of us reserve a exclusive side of our lives for our intimate relationship that we don't share with other people.

There are personal moments of conversations and closeness that results in a tight bond between two people that is essential for a good.

The person who is prying does not share those moments you have had. And most importantly, they are not sharing the emotions and experiences you are going through in the relationship.

They have no right to tell you what you should or shouldn’t do in your relationship because they are not experiencing your whole relationship!

2. I Am Not YOU!

Often a  prying individual will say "If it was up to me, I would do it differently Of course, they probably WOULD do it differently; because that’s the way THEY would do it! But they are not you. And YOU have a different way of going about things.

Not only do you have a different way of going about things, but you also have a different way of seeing things and you have unique opinions, habits, and goals in life and in your relationship than they would. Because of this you handle things differently than them – and they have to fully grasp that.
 
3. I am Happy With My Relationship

Sometimes you you can't convince them of anything and you just have to show them the positive viewpoint of your relationship.

As much as you would like to share the negative moments or discuss relationship problems with them, they may not be able to handle hearing that kind of information without meddling in your relationship.

You are not being fake, it’s not being untruthful, it’s just showing the meddling person a side of your relationship that they can cope with without interjecting their recommendations.

If they constantly see happiness and joy then they will have no reason to meddle into your relationship.

Get rid of meddlers by making use of the above 3 tips. Your relationship will thank you!