Attitude Determines Success

Attitude determines success. Some people may not agree with it. They do not believe attitude has such an important influence on success, but in my view, a good positive attitude will lead a person to success.Positive attitude can make up your shortage to become perfect; and negative attitudes will result in failure. William James said: The greatest of our generation found the human can change their attitude to change their life. Therefore we can say: Attitude determines success. Because no matter good or bad, we must hold a positive attitude and do not let frustration, despair replace enthusiasm. Life can be in very high value, or may also be nothing, the key is how do we face and choose. You may have heard such a story: An old mother had two daughters. The elder daughter married to a businessman selling umbrellas; the younger daughter worked in a dye house. The situation made the mother worry every day. When it is sunny, she worried about the elder daughter's umbrellas can not sell; when it is overcast, she worried about the second daughter’s finished fabrics can not go dry. So she worried everyday, and her hair became white very soon. One day, a friend came to visit the old mother her, and terribly surprised by her white hair. When the friend knew the reason, she said: "You should be happy when it is raining because your elder daughter can sell her umbrellas; you should be happy too when it is sunny due to second daughter can dry her cloth, therefore you should be happy every day ".  The old mother felt it was correct. Since then, she was smiling and happy through the day. So different attitudes toward the same life, the results will be different too. We should face our life with optimistic, open-minded, considerate attitude. Kant said: "angry, is to use someone else's mistakes punish yourself." When you look at yourself from another angle, you will realize that life's bitter, tired, happy, comfortable is mainly depends on the person's state of mind, involving to the attitude towards life. Holding positive attitude, we can calmly peace with life. As a philosopher once said, our pain is not caused by the problem itself, but from our view on the issue. We all want to succeed, and explore on the road to success with great efforts. In the process, we may pay a lot, even a lot of sacrifices, but only a few of us succeed finally. The successful live is full, comfortable and chic; the failure life is empty, difficulty, and trivial. In fact, the main reason is that the winners and losers having different state of mind, especially at the critical moment. To a successful person, his attitude towards the issue plays a vital role. And he adopts a positive attitude to handle the difficulties encountered in life, contradictions and problems.

In short, attitude determines the success or failure, success stems from attitude.