Does He Like Me Signs

Have you been saying to yourself, “does he like me?” Signs of being liked can come in many different looks. It just takes an open mind and being honest with you to know if the signs are real.  Once you know for sure you will feel great in the confidence it is real.

We can spend a lifetime chasing a dream or we can look at reality and see what is in front of us.  When we start a new relationship there is a little haziness that goes on.  We hear what we want to hear, not what is said.  We see what we want to see, not what is actually happening.  So it is important to know what the signs are for someone liking you.

Communication is the key

Communication is the main ingredient of all relationships.  To communicate means to share your likes, dislikes, hopes, dreams, and tragedies.  It is how we let others know who we are and what we want in life.  When you meet someone we have a tendency to hold back and give as little information about ourselves as possible, or the opposite we exaggerate who we are in hopes that someone will not know who we really are.  Either way, how a person communicates will tell you whether he likes you or not. Listen for positive talk; see if he is optimistic and hopeful for the future of different subjects you speak about.

Body language

It is important when you are talking to this person that you are looking for signs that he is interested in you.  One way is to watch his body language.  It is interesting to watch when someone is saying one thing, and the body is saying something completely different.  So be mindful of what is going on with his hands, his eyes and his overall body movements. For example, your guy tells you that he really likes you, but his eyes are looking up, down, and/or all around it’s a definite clue he’s uncomfortable. When his arms are crossed, you can definitely bet something is going on. Watch your own body language and how it is responding to his words and his movements. 

Respectful and courteous

If someone is treating you disrespectfully you can bet that they may have another agenda.  Caring for someone means respecting who they are and what they do.  People do not have to agree with each other, but everyone should have their thoughts and feelings respected.  Courteousness, on the other hand, means to give the other person thought before considering yourself.  If you have a date with someone and they are running late but do not take the time to call you and let you know, this is not courtesy.  When someone likes a person they will let you know so you do not worry about what is going on.

Does he like me signs can come in all shapes and forms, but it is up to you to stay focused and aware if you really want to get to know the person better or not.