In the quest for romantic connections, the question of how much height matters in dating success often arises. While some believe that taller men have an advantage, the reality is more nuanced. Dr. Dennis sheds light on this topic, addressing a viewer's concerns about height preferences in the dating world.
A viewer reaches out to Dr. Dennis with a personal inquiry about the role of height in dating. Despite being a man of average height with a muscular build, he wonders if women generally prefer men who are their height, slightly taller, or significantly taller. His own experiences have not indicated a clear bias, but he's curious about the broader perspective.
The viewer, standing at 5'8 1/2", has successfully dated women ranging from 5'1" to 5'8" and has not faced rejection due to his height. He observes that while some of his female friends express a preference for taller men, others are content with partners of similar height. He questions the importance of height in attraction and suggests that confidence may play a more significant role.
Dr. Dennis reassures the viewer that height should not be a primary concern. He points out that the global average height for men is around 5'6", according to the World Health Organization, placing the viewer above average. Dr. Dennis emphasizes that attraction is subjective and varies from person to person. He lists the attributes that women worldwide find most attractive in men, with height ranking lower on the list:
Dr. Dennis explains that "power" can be interpreted differently by each individual, and what truly matters is a person's overall stature, not just their physical height. He encourages focusing on qualities that are universally appealing rather than fixating on height.
Research supports Dr. Dennis's perspective. A study published in the Journal of Family Issues found that while women often prefer taller men, the effect of height on attractiveness was less significant than other factors such as personality and shared interests (Salska et al., 2008). Furthermore, a comprehensive analysis by social psychologist Dr. Gert Stulp revealed that taller men may have more dating and mating opportunities, but height is not the sole determinant of relationship success (Stulp et al., 2013).
Dr. Dennis concludes with a poignant saying from his mother, emphasizing that one's stature, which encompasses presence and character, is more important than physical height. He advises the viewer to focus on developing qualities that enhance personal stature and leave a lasting impression.
For those seeking further advice on love, dating, sex, or relationships, Dr. Dennis invites questions and offers more insights on his website, BeingAMan.com. Additionally, viewers can explore content on BAM! TV at BeingAMan.tv and follow him on Facebook and Twitter.
Copyright (c) 2009, Dr. Dennis W. Neder All rights reserved.
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