Scott J. Patterson

Are You Lucky or Successful With Women?

Attracting women sometimes comes down to your perspective.  If you have internalized that you have the ability to succeed with women, it'll be easy to attract and seduce them.

Let me ask you a question...

When you successfully pick up a woman and get her number, do you consider yourself lucky or successful?

I know this is a confusing statement, but let me explain what I mean...

Whenever a guy considers himself 'lucky, he thinks he has no control in his success with women.  This type of man views the outcomes of any conversation with women as a chance of fate.  If he is successful with a woman, he thinks that it was just a turn of fate, over which he had no control.  In essence, he has had a lucky day!

On the other hand, a guy who considers himself 'successful' with women knows ANY outcome depends on his skills and experience.  If this guy picks up a woman, he it's knows is because of the things he said and the flirting he did during the conversation.  This guy is successful because he understands what attracts women and how to utilize this knowledge

Now let's move on to the reason that I ask if you're 'lucky' or 'successful' with women.  The reason for this question is because your belief in your ability to attract women can be summed up with this question.  If you have belief in your ability to attract women, then it'll actually happen.

Believe it or not, you DO have control of the outcomes of your conversations with women.  You do have the ability to increase your success with women.  If you think you can do it, then you'll have incredible success.

All you have to do is learn the right approach techniques, develop your conversation skills and know how the right way to ask a woman on a date.

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