Ask him out - Dont wait to be asked.

The high expectation of the guy making the first move is something our current generation of singles knows nothing about. The pressure of working up the courage to ask someone out on a date is very much shared among the sexes these days.

Moving beyond tradition, from a guys point of view there is nothing more flattering than being hit on by a girl. Being asked out by a girl does wonders for his self confidence. However men also thrive on the thrill of the chase, a common issue rasied by women is that once she makes the first move the chase ends for the guy and so does his interest in her. Certainly this is a generalization and perhaps this type of shallow mentality isnt worth the bother anyway.

Factors that can be attributed to the advancement of todays forward females include their desire for independence and a need to establish themselves as individuals and maintaining a life not soley dependent on men. Women are delaying getting married, having children and waiting before they commit to a typical family environment to establish themselves as young successful women in the community being their priority.

Technology also has an influence with the way women handle themselves in the singles and dating scene. There is nothing more nerve racking than phoning or approaching someone in person to ask them out. These days alot of the flirting and gesturing can be done without the face to face ordeal. Texting someone is a great way to test the waters to see if a potential date is interested. You will soon know if your in with a chance with the response you receive. Texting allows singles to be polite and gentle or as forward and direct as you see fit.

Online dating sites have revolutionized the way singles interact. Knowing where you stand with someone you approach online is firstly easy to determine, and secondly easy to initiate your intentions. In some ways online dating sites still maintain some of the traditions as previous generations whereby it is common for women to have their profile online but many wait for the offers to come in before they respond. Virtually any dating site will allow singles to post a profile for free and send messages for free however in order to respond to messages a subscription is normally required. Other online options include chat rooms, an excellent way to look at the online talent to see how they interact rather than just relying on a profile.

The coming of age for females descending to the forefront of modern dating is good news for guys, as the pressure of sharing the load when it comes to asking someone out is shared amongst the sexes making way for exciting times with todays singles.