Asking the Right Questions to Get the Right Woman For You

Sometimes you meet several women you like in the same time. For some guys this would be a very good situation because they have options to choose. For some guys it is a dilemma, especially if you already have little interest with the women. 

Let me help you in this. You have their phone numbers and emails and now you are going to start a contact with them. What now?  How do you start separating those who have real potential and those who do not have any potential at all?  You need to find out more about who they really are and not just who they want you to believe they are. 

It would be a lot easier if women wore labels like Gold Digger or Nice Girl but they are not so it is up to you to find these things out and you can not just ask direct questions about it to them. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to impress them if you decide you want to do that. These are some things to ask to them personally.

After the initial small talk, you should ask her about what are the biggest mistakes guys do when dating with her. Listen carefully to her answers.  She is going to tell you a lot about herself and her views on men in general. 

Next you should ask her opinion about dating. Now she will tell you if she has had any bad experiences dating and help you to avoid making the same mistakes. 

Now for the important one, you should ask her about the cause of the break up in her last relationship. If she puts all the blame on the guy, it means that she is the kind of person who blame it to the other. If she takes all the blame herself, she is the kind that submissive to bad situations. If she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just was not right for either of them, then she is pretty fair in handling situations. Move forward but always with caution.

Asking the right questions will give you the right answers. Those answers are the best ingredients for your personal evaluation, so you can decide which one is the most appropriate candidate for you. No matter what are the answers and the evaluation result, you also need to listen to your own answers from your heart.