Cheating Girlfriend - What Do I Do Now Knowing That My Girlfriend Has Been Cheating

Having found your girlfriend cheating on you, what do you do now? Is there any way back for the two of you?Have you recently found out that you have a cheating girlfriend? Not very pleasant is it? What you don't need is someone like me reminding you of the fact. So what do you do next, where do you go from here? And how many more questions am i going to ask? No I'm not trying to be funny, but i am going to try to lift you back up on your feet again.There is still one great thing you have in your favor, and that's the ability to make a decision for yourself. So if you want you can sit back and feel sorry for your self, which i have to admit is very easy to do, or you can do the hardest thing of all which is to carry on living your life and try to make some sense of what has happened.How much is cheating worth to you? (that is my last question, i promise) Some men find it very easy to forgive infidelity, because the alternative is a lot harder to deal with. If you are prepared to give her another chance, then i can only assume that you think there is hope for a fresh start.Up to now i have been putting you in the position of a decision maker, asking you to move forward and get on with your life. But there is a lot to be said for taking your time and thinking things over. That does not mean feeling sorry for your self. The hurt you may still feel could effect what decision you make. Therefore it might be worth stepping back and let some time go by, before you make a decision that could effect your whole life..You will be tempted to hear what she has to say, to see if she feels any guilt for what she has done to you. She may even convince you that the relationship is worth another try, that things will be better in the future. But what you must always remember, what she did to you was an act of betrayal.It never hurts to do a bit of homework, so writing down what you want to say is a prudent idea. There is nothing worse than losing your temper with nothing constructive to say. The questions that you want to ask will be from your heart and not practical "where do we go from here questions" If there is any chance of moving on, you have to ask the questions you want most answered.The one question that will be straining at the leash to be answered is the who the when and how often. Now while you feel the need for answers, think what possible good can come from knowing. It would better serve you and your girlfriend, to put those questions on the back boiler for the time being.Dear friend, if you suspect that you have a cheating girlfriend, I would urge to follow the advice i have given you. I do however have one key ingredient that I have left out of the above article, that I want to share with you in full at my website, http://www.themagicofmakingup.org.uk This last element is crucial, but unfortunately the space here is limited, so I urge you to click through to my site right now.