Coping With A Relationship Breakup When He Walks Out On You

All he wants to say is that he no longer loves you and he wants to find somewhere else to live. That kind of news is enough to make anyone buckle. At first you might believe there is a solution to the problem, and that it can be worked out. You could see a therapist, who would give you some good advice on what to do next. But will your husband come with you? You cannot make him if he does not want to.  By choosing not to see the therapist with you, you can assume it is all over between you. He seems to have made his mind up, and does not want to mend the relationship.He is obviously only interested in himself. You must look after yourself, as well. Someone has to be there for the children, and that someone is you. It is a situation not of your own making, but you are the one left picking up the pieces, and that is not fair.How much do you know about your husband? He could be in another relationship without you knowing about it, even though he has not mentioned it, so far. He might want to come back to you some time in the future, but will he do the same thing again?You have to be strong and tell yourself you can come through this a better person. Find out if he is willing to at least talk to you to see if things can be worked out between you. He owes you this courtesy. If he won't, then there is no point in pursuing it further. You cannot have a lasting relationship where only on partner loves the other. It just will not work.