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Dating on FacebookYou found him/her on Facebook, now what? Do you just continue to message until someone gets tired of it? Dr. Dennis helps a guy with his Facebook dilemma. Hello Dr. Neder:
This last weekend, I bumped into an old friend that happens to be friends with my ex. She was with another friend with whom I hit it off really well. We all decided to go hang out for a while.
She and I flirted quite a bit and we spent the entire evening together. She and I took a taxi home where I kissed her on the cheek when we got to her place.
She gave me her Facebook name and I friended her. As well, I left my number with out mutual friend.
Since all of this happened, I haven't heard anything from her. I may just be getting a little impatient, but I'm not sure what to do to keep her interested.
Hello!
Why didn't you close this girl for her digits when you had the chance? Now, you have to play the Facebook game with her, going back and forth and you STILL have to get her number anyway! That's terrible form - and you'd better trust me on this one - she IS going to play you here! You set yourself up for this and now she's going to take full advantage of it.
Here's a simple rule: don't EVER accept only an email address or Facebook or MySpace connection! It's far, far easier to play you and try to keep you on the hook as long as she can without going anywhere. This is exactly what is going to happen now.
You didn't bother asking me a question here - you just told me a story, so I'm going to have to assume you want an answer as to what to do now.
The answer is to get her damn digits already! If she won't give them to you, you're going to have to kick yourself for being so dumb and move on.
Tell her to give them to you and CALL HER; DO NOT try to flirt or date this girl on Facebook! You're just going to cause her to lose interest very quickly and you'll lose her. Get to another date right away and turn on the charm. This HAS TO (and I mean HAS TO) be done in person!!!!
Best regards... ------------------------------------------------------------------ Have a love, dating, sex or relationship question? You can write to me or get more information about “Being a Man in a Woman’s World tm” by going to: http://BeingAMan.com. Be sure to check out the new BAM! TV at http://BeingAMan.tv.
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ABOUT THE AUTHORDr. Neder is known around the world as a tough, but fair relationship expert, dealing with all sorts of dating, sex and relationship issues from a man's perspective. He has written 14 books ("Being a Man in a Woman's World™" series) and is working on 2 others. He's also written hundreds of articles, answered over 26,000 reader/viewer questions and has been on over a thousand radio and TV shows. "Dr. Dennis" is funny, direct and intuitive and has a unique ability to get right to the heart of the issue.
Do you have a burning question that needs an answer? Are you a man that wants to better experiences with women, or a woman that wants to better understand men? To learn more, go to http://beingaman.com and http://beingaman.tv. You can also follow his micro-blog at: http://twitter.com/dwneder. 
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