Did Your Ex Boyfriend Break Up And You Want Him Back?

Did your ex boyfriend break up with you recently and now you are lost without him? Are you thinking about trying to get him back? Here is some advice to help you decide if you should get your ex boyfriend back or just move on.Depending on how the break up happened, it is possible that the relationship is not truly over with. If you are feeling empty because he is not there then maybe you would prefer not to just move on.Perhaps he is feeling this way also, but maybe he is not.It is not necessary or advisable to angrily start throwing out anything that he gave you, pictures of him or you both or anything that reminds you of him. Do not act irrationally just because you and your boyfriend break up.Start out by just being around in some of the same places where he hangs out. Put on a happy face, talk to other people including other guys and make sure that you look your best. Looking your best is for his benefit, your benefit because you feel better and possibly to attract someone new.If you feel you just cannot do this because of the hurt you are feeling, then try talking it out to trusted friends and family who truly care for you. Maybe even some short term therapy sessions with an impartial third person.We always benefit from simple things like writing in a diary or journal, maybe even write a song or poem about how you feel. Just do not box in your feelings or ignore them.If it gets to the point where you truly feel it is over with your ex boyfriend and want closure then I suggest a caring approach to any items that might be from or about him.

• Separate items that you want to keep that he gave you.
• Give back what is of value that he might appreciate receiving back. Treat others as you like to be treated; they will respect you more, you can respect yourself more and you might like the return treatment that is inspired by your actions.
• Save a few photos and remembrances just because he was a part of your life.

Once you have decided to move on, treat yourself well and do things that make you happy. Take care of yourself with healthy eating and exercise and always try to look your best. Enjoy life and do not concentrate on getting another boyfriend right away.This advice will work very well when you and your boyfriend break up regardless of whether you eventually get back together or start a new relationship with someone else.Your ultimate goal is to live a happy and rewarding life and not ruin precious days, months or even years because you and your boyfriend break up.Take control of the situation for your benefit starting right now. Read more tips and watch the videos at our website http://www.RelationshipAdviceHelp.com.