How Can I Get My Girlfriend To Love Me - I Cheated On Her Am Sorry And Want Her Back

"How can I get my girlfriend to love me, even if I cheated on her?", a guy I will call "Ray" asked me recently. Ray told me he tried everything he could to get her to forgive him and take him back. He bought flowers, candy, said "I'm sorry" about 50 times, even while on his knees.None of that worked, though, Ray's girlfriend just sees him as a desperate, pathetic creature who cheated on her. Actually, begging and bribing usually do not work all that well, long term anyway. Remember that this girl is really hurt and fuming mad, you need to be careful.Winning your girlfriend back under most circumstances can be difficult, but if you have cheated then you really need help. But that is what we are here for, to help, we have been asked before "how can I get my girlfriend to love me" by guys who have made the mistake of cheating on her.The secret is to come up with a way that really shows her how sorry you are without making yourself look like a pathetic, undesirable wretch that no one would want. So let us look at one winning strategy that others have had success with before.Cheating is serious business, so do not be surprised if the medicine tastes a little bitter.In order to regain your girlfriend's heart you are going to write her a letter using good old fashioned pen and paper. This is NOT an email or text message. Use the post office to deliver it.In the letter you are going to tell her that she is right (which she already knows and will agree with). Say that you agree that it is good for her to take some time with her decision and that the two of you need to go separate ways. You have seen this coming for a while now and are ready to accept it.After that, make a short apology. Tell her how sorry you are, you made a horrible mistake and are now suffering the consequences you deserve. The affair is the biggest regret of your life. It showed a lack of respect for her and your relationship and you are truly sorry.Then, at the end of the letter, mention that something wonderful has happened in your life that you would like to tell her about whenever she is ready to talk to you again. Sign off the letter in a rather neutral way and then mail it after making a photocopy for yourself to keep.Your now ex girlfriend will probably be blown away by the fact that you actually sat down and wrote her a letter. Inconsiderate cheaters do not usually do something like that. This is a classy way of showing her that you do respect her and care that you hurt her.At the same time, though, you indicate that you are not moping around in self pity or begging her for her time and attention. You are ready to restart your life and move forward. The ball is now in her court and, chances are, this has aroused her curiosity and even renewed her love interest towards you - just a little bit at least.While waiting for her to contact you make sure you stay busy, take care of yourself, look good and always be upbeat around others. We do not want her to think you are sitting at home by the phone waiting for her call.When you do hear from her, you need to be ready and on top of your game. So do not let this get you down, keep going forward. Give her time.When Ray asked "How can I get my girlfriend to love me, even if I cheated on her?" I asked him if he was serious about getting her back. He said yes. What I told him and wrote above is just the start.If you really want to succeed at getting her back you are not done yet. Get every last detail at our website. The address is http://www.RelationshipAdviceHelp.com. What are you waiting for? Let's get going right now.