How Can I Get My Man Back – Time Tested Techniques But You Absolutely Must Follow Them 100%

Right after a break up you just can’t turn your mind of can you? It is like a constant nagging going on all the time but the big difference between the normal nag and this one is that this one hurts so badly. And the crazy dialogue in your head that just won’t quit is how can I get my man back?

At a time like this it’s hard to imagine much good news but in fact no matter how impossible it might seem to you right now, there is a real good chance that you two can get back together again.

Now before we get started helping you to get your man back you’re going to have to do a little soul searching. You must be sure that you want to get back with your ex for all the right reasons because; not only do these tactics work, it’s only fair to him.

Of course those reasons for getting with him are that you still love him and respect him and are really the right person for him. You can’t get back with him just because you’re lonely and your ego is bruised.

Just a quick note here before we move on. If the cause of your break up had to do with any kinds of abuse whether it was sexual, physical or even verbal please run the other way. Getting back into a relationship like that is dangerous and kind of crazy. If you were in that type of a relationship, you should also consider seeing a counselor before you entering your next relationship with anyone.

So now it’s time to reveal what you really need to know if you want to get back with your man:

• Be totally honest with what happened. You already did your soul searching; now you must be perfectly honest with yourself and admit to yourself that it really takes two people to bust up a relationship and you have to figure how you played a role in this.

• Stay away from the phone. It’s so important at this stage of your break up that you do not terrorize your ex with the phone. Give the guy some space because just like you he’s trying to figure out what the heck went on as well. If you bombard him with phone calls right now, you will say all the wrong stuff because you’re not ready yet and you will push him away forever.

• Set a date to meet. After you two have settled down for awhile it’s a good idea to make contact only to set a date where you two can meet. Don’t go to your old hang out, pick some place neutral where you two have never been together. The last thing you need to do is run into friends you don’t want to see at this meeting.

• Be prepared for light talk. This might be the hardest step of all. When you see you ex for the first time in awhile, your heart is going to do a back flip. You might want to run over and jump on him but you can’t. Please don’t. You have to stay cool and reserved and find out if he still has feelings for you.

• Start your get back forever strategy. If you find out on your meeting that he really does have feelings for you then you two are off to the races. However at this stage, the most important stage of all is where you will either win big or lose big. This is where you two start dating again on a clean slate. Easier said that done.