How Do You Get a Girl to Like You

Have you encountered the girl of your dreams? Every time you come across her, does your heart do flips and somersaults? Is every thought in your head focused on her, creating fantasies about taking her out, holding her hand, laughing with her or even kissing her in your mind? The problem is that you probably do not even know her name yet, and you have never even worked up the courage to approach her. So how on earth are you ever going to muster the courage to see if she likes you back?

There are no real hard and fast rules in existence when it comes to getting a girl to like you. You can try as hard as you want, but everyone is different and everyone has completely different tastes. She may be the girl of your dreams, but there is a very real change that you are not even a feature in her dreams. You simply cannot force anyone to like you, nor can you purchase affection from them. Either someone is going to like you, or they are not going to like you, and it is that simple.

The first step in the process is to get her to notice you too -

The first thing that you need to do is to get her to notice you as well if you pass her on the street for example. So if you walk by her on the street, smile and say hello, but do not make a nuisance of yourself. Just say hello in passing, and let her get a feel for you. Say hi once or twice; let her figure out who you are. Then in a few days, pass by her again but this time pretend to be paying attention to something else - Does she say hi to you? This is a telltale sign that she has in fact noticed you, and is paying attention.

Begin a conversation -

Now that you know that she is noticing you as well, it is time to strike a conversation up with her. The next time that you happen to pass by her on the street, allow her to initiate the hello and respond with a smile and a simple hi. You can ask her a simple question like "Do you know what time it is?" and try to ease further into a conversation after that.

Ask Her Out -

Asking a girl out can only go one of two ways: She is either going to say yes, or she is going to say no. No does not mean yes, but no can often mean maybe. If she says that she has plans, or has to be somewhere else, there may be a chance for a date another time. If she offers you an excuse like "I have to wash my hair," then she is probably just not that into you.