How to Get Real Dates from the Internet

Are you feeling prepared to try internet dating and contact a lot of fantastic girls?  Here I'm going to describe how you can write your user profile page so that it really stands out and I'll tell you ways to get her off the net and going out with you face-to-face.

For your personal profile, use a couple of quality images of yourself.  Please avoid photos of you flexing your chest or biceps.  Women will not find this attractive and it will in fact turn them off since it just indicates that you’re immature and shallow.  Also don’t put up pictures of you with other girls (even though you cut her head off).  This makes you seem like some type of ladies' man and probably won't bring you anywhere with internet dating.

Next your profile text must be descriptive.  Don’t simply type “I am a fun guy” or “I have a job as an accountant.”  For girls, that’s really bland.  If you want to meet girls on the internet it's best to be descriptive on your user profile.  Write stories about yourself that show your character.  Write such as, “When I am driving my car on the interstate and children make faces at me from a passing van, I occasionally make faces back.”  Wasn't that a whole lot stronger than “I am a great man?”

So, now that we've got your user profile put together the right way and you emailed out a few quality e-mails, It is time to begin and connect with women online.

Try to remember, the only point of the first email is to get the woman to visit your profile.  From there she will read what you’ve written and respond with an e-mail back.  You ought to trade 3 to 4 messages before getting her phone number.  Take charge of the situation and write something such as, “You seem like the kind of person I’d like to get to know better.  Why don't we talk on the telephone.  Give me your telephone number.  Mine is (555) 867-5309.”

Talk over the telephone with her once or even twice.  Don’t waste a lot of time on the phone.  That'll look needy.  Talk for maybe 20 to 30 minutes.  When you've got positive rapport and she seems like the type of girl you want to connect with face-to-face, let her know.  A lot like before, tell her something similar to, “I really like you.  Why don't we meet up for a cup of joe in a few days.  When do you think you're free?”

When you ask her out, don't forget to have a location picked out to meet her.  Again, this is an example of taking the bull by the horns.  Don’t be one of those men that asks out a woman and then do not have a plan on what to do with her.  And when you can, make the spot of the date intriguing.  Starbucks is lame and not original.  Find some sort of funky coffee house.  Preferably, you should already have one where you go often just for fun.  Or you may use anything you’ve managed to find out about her up to now to choose a date location that fits her interests.  This is very classy and lets her know you pay attention when she’s talking.