How to Kiss a Girl with Confidence

Have you ever been out on a date and felt that awkward feeling when you knew you had to take things to the next level, but you felt so anxious that you couldn't follow through?

This is a very common problem that most men will have to work through sooner or later.  Actually, I used to suffer from the same problem.  I would be able to get women to go out with me, but I could never seal the deal when it came time to take things physical.

Firstly, if you can get a girl to see you and you have a hunch that she may even be attracted to you, then you are getting better results than most men are experiencing.  You just need to know how to kiss a girl.

The real problem is in your mind. Your mind is most likely churning "What if she just wants to be friends? How should I handle that?".

All of this is just a waste of your energy.

There are no fool-proof ways to know if a girl likes you or not.

What you should do instead is find out quickly if she is worth your time or not.

So you need to kiss her at a good moment such as at the end of a date. Once you master this, you will just know when to kiss her. The situation will feel thick and you will intuitively know it is time to kiss.

As you go in to kiss her, she will respond in one of two ways.

First, the two of you will kiss and all sorts of exciting antics will ensure.

Or, she turns down your kiss. If you get this reaction, be glad!  This woman just proved to you that she is not worth your time and now you can move on to other girls.

Simply say something cool such as, "Hey you can't blame a guy for trying. " or "Hey, take it as a compliment. "  End the date at your first chance. Treat her like a friend and don't let things turn weird.

Then your relationship is left to her. If she realizes she made an error, it is up to her to call you. But leave it to her. You will be spending your time dating girls that are interested in getting intimate with you.

Here is a personal example of how to kiss a woman.

I had a date with a woman who I really liked a lot. Once every so often, you cross paths with a girl that just full stuns you. She was one of those women.

I took her out to grab a bite at one of my favorite places in the city. She invited me back to her condo afterward to show me some art she was working on. We sat on her sofa and talked.

Then a silence fell over us.

I knew I had to kiss her. I didn't have a clue how she would respond to it, but I gave it a shot. I gave the moment some time to soak in, then I said, "I really want to kiss you."  Then I leaned in and kissed her.

There was some inital hesitation, but soon she just relaxed into it. Stay in control of the situation and don't let up at the first hint of hesitation. She will make it very plain if she doesn't want you to kiss her. But anticipate a little initial hesitation at first.

Also be a man and stay in control of the kissing. Most women will try to kiss in their own way at first. Be firm and direct with your kissing and she will relax and let you take the lead.

Afterward I leaned back and said "I've wanted to do that for a really long time. "  She seemed to enjoy that and I continued to have a fun weekend with her.

So that is how you can kiss a girl the right way. I know it can be unnerving to put it all out there like that, but it is really pretty exhilarating.