Almost everyone is totally conscious of the fact that dating occurs
between a male and a female but what many people really don’t know is
that; how you behave and interact on a first date is likely going to
keep a lasting impression about you forever.
That’s why the first date is very important because based on your
interaction on the first meeting, the other person is likely to easily
predict who you are, what you like doing, your purpose of the
relationship, your personality, your background etc. So, in order to be
on the safer side, you have to prepare it in advance, and the only way
you can do this is by learning how to prepare for a date.
One thing that shouldn’t go off your mind is that; how you’re going
to behave or perform around is likely going to explain many things about
you to your date and vice versa. These include many positive and
negative things. But in this article today, I’d be talking only on the
positive signals that you’re going to send in order for your date to
interpret you based on the positive signals while avoiding the
This is how to prepare for a date
Preparing for a successful date is nothing more than considering certain
factors ahead of time. This process is very necessary in order that you
don't send out the wrong impression about yourself and your background.
You have to play your part well in order to send out the right
impression. Below are some guidelines that will act as some kind of
support in making your date successful. In my book How
to make someone fall in love with you, I explained how you can send
out certain good impressions in the mind of your victim in order to
make him/her finds you very attractive for the first time without doing
Consider what to wear: It’s normal to dress as you wish
to visit an old friend but the reverse is different when going for a
date (especially the first date). Since every occasion requires its own
style of dressing, that's why we have many kinds of dresses. I know it
could be somehow difficult to be selective on what to wear that matches
the circumstance. But if you can’t be that selective, just ask/call some
experienced or good
friends to help make that choice for you. Based on psychology, how
you dress tells other people how you feel about yourself. So, dress
Keep your sight features attractive: They’re some people who
to others based on inner qualities, while the second group of people
get attracted based on sight attraction such as hair style, facial
features, your talking habit, your finger nails etc. If you date
happened to fall among the second group, the probably that he/she would
be impressed if you keep these criteria attractive is very high thereby
creating a pleasant atmosphere.
Plan a public date: Won't it be wise to plan your date in a
public gathering if it's your first date? Usually going on a first date
is to know each other better and not necessarily romantic meeting. You
can choose a restaurant, mall, club, or anywhere suitable. This is just
some kind of further step avoiding romantic torture just the first time.
Limit yourself on general topics: When we’re about going for
an interview we start being nervous and the same thing happens when
going on a date. In order to carry out a successful date you must avoid
those topics that make your date feel like an interview. Before going
think of topics that will make your date feel comfortable. You can do
this by doing some research or coming up with latest happenings/vibes in
town and talk about that. This way your date will know what you’re
talking about and will be impressed
to involve fluently in your conversation. Imagine someone talking trash,
how would you feel? You’d certainly freak out, right? And that’s what
we’re trying to avoid.
Don’t rely on your date: In order to deny dependency or
relying on your date, you must appear to be responsible. It’s never too
good to depend on a person you’ve never met for financial expenses.
Budgeting your own money let you avoid any form of embarrassment.
Depending on your date for the very first time really sucks. He might be
saying something like this: “Oh my God, she’s financially broke! Even
taxi fair, she couldn’t.” No one would like to tolerate this, right? So,
always budget even what you really don’t know.
Final say on how to prepare for a date
As you can see, going for a date isn’t the problem but what matters
is how to prepare for it. By following the above steps, your date won’t
only be successful but you‘d also send the right signals about yourself
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