If you want something casual with no-strings, then be honest about it. It's powerful and shows no fear of loss. Be direct about it and at the very least you will be respected for it.
"I don't do relationships...but we can still hang out if you like" "I don't want a relationship...so if you still want to hang out that's great, but if not that's cool too" There is no reason to lie, spin, or redirect the topic. You just lay it out simply and clearly. You are not being crude. Everyone knows that no-relationship implies something casual, so there is no reason to spell it out. It only becomes a problem if that person reacts badly and starts getting defensive. In this case you cut your losses and move on. They accept your frame and there is no room for discussion. Therefore there is no room for further debate on her saying: - "I'm not easy you know"- "I don't want a relationship either, but I should tell you I don't sleep with guys on the first date" These might seem like reasonable objections but they are not. Accepting them or trying to compromise means that you are not firm in your beliefs and that makes you weak. Simply cut your losses and move on. It is obvious that person wants the upper hand. People all over are meeting and interacting with no agenda whatsoever, so there is no reason to feel that you are doing anything wrong. So stick to your guns and stick with those people who fit in with your plans. You will be much happier because of it. Copyright © 2007 Vittorio Norman
Reducing NLP And Seductive Language Into Simple Terms
There are many claims that NLP (Neuro-Linguistic-Programming) can be a useful trick for seducing women. The pitch is endless on how to turn women on, remove barriers, and basically get much further than you would otherwise. It seems like a form of manipulation, one that can work. But does it?
The Relevance Of The Slut Defense
On some seduction forums, men talk about how to disarm or circumvent the social mask women have, called the "slut defense". This is a defense women have against appearing too "easy" for their sexual conduct. But is it really that necessary to manage this interruption mechanism women have?
Listening To Your Inner Voice
Overload of information is such a reality these days, that finding the truth you seek is a near impossibility sometimes. While it is true that being open to the various options is important, it is even more important to know when to take time out for yourself and find the answers from within.
