It is possible to get your ex back

I have been reading a lot about relationship issues lately and one this that I see very often is couple who broke up but now wants to get back with their partners.  Often they find it not easy to deal with and don not really have a solution to the problem and will end up alone, heartbroken and trying to build their life again even if they still want to get back with the person they just broke up with.

I have seen many people going through this kind of situation in real life too without really doing anything about it.  I know most of what you will read and advices from others is most of the time easier said than done, since in your mind it's over and there is no turning back.  But what will you do with that fire which is still burning deep inside?  You know it's there but it is just too hard to face it.  One of the best example I have about a couple who broke up and got back together is my sister and her boyfriend.  I have always been there a bit as her counselor and I am happy to see that they are back together and things got back as they use to be.

The thing is with most couple when they brake it is the same scenario.  They brake up and comes back saying sorry, saying they won't do this or that again but it usually ends up worse.  My sister has been with her boyfriend for 5 years before they broke up, just imagine how painful it was for both of them to split after having spent so much time together.  I told her to let go for some time, that it won't be easy but just give yourself some time before taking any decision.  After a few weeks she learned that the guy is going to some other country to work.  That broke her heart but I told her to stay firm, and she did, I know that they still loved each other, sometimes human don't realize the importance of their partners until they are away from them.

So, just days after that, the guy started calling my sister almost everyday also sending her emails telling how he is missing her and how hard it is to be without her.  They are now back together though the guy is still working abroad for a few more months.  Now imagine if they had just let go and got new partners in their life, they would probably be regretting it right now.  Also I have noticed that they are less possessive over each other like they used to before and also more open to let each other do things that they have put restrictions on.  It is funny how rough situations can bring back partners together, the guy probably just needed some time alone to think over their relationship again.  I am happy that they are together hopefully for many years to come.