Let Her Know and Prove it If You Like Her

Men sometimes (if not all times) are arrogant. The arrogance of a man is built by two things. The first one is because he is clever, and the other one is because he is stupid.

For the relationship thing, sadly most of us are stupid.

Let me give you a real life example. Have you ever interested in a girl but then pretend you are not?

Or when the girl you like come and talk to your friend beside you, you acted as if you do not care about her?

That is what I call stupid. Sadly, that are the things we sometimes do.

We acted as if she does not exist, we pretend that we are busy with other things, too busy to just say hi or introduce ourself to her.

Not because we do not like or not attracted to her, but on the contrary we do that things because we want to looked cool. Or stupid?

Do not get me wrong, I am not telling you to be all aggressive and expressive about your feelings for a girl, because a girl would surely freak out on you for that.

I'm telling you to be a gentleman. A gentleman is a man who treats a woman with balanced and proper respect.

In a relationship, we simply want to do things our own way. We think that we know everything about her and she knows everything about us.

We think that she already knows that we love her, that we care for her and that is it. We say that we love her, but we do not do anything about it.

Or worse, we do not even say that we love her, we just think that she already knows it, so why bother to say it

My brothers, women think and feel in a different way from men. Women are depending their thoughts and understandings from their feeling.

Women do not accept a fact as a fact until they feel and agree that the fact is the fact!

So when a man tells a woman, she does not accept the statement as a fact, but as a thing that need proper confirmation. Confirmation from her!  

That confirmation depends on your action toward her. If you tell her you like her and you care about her but you do not call her, you do not spend time to go out with her, you do not care about her activities, and all those other attention things then it means that you are lying when you said that you like her.

Prove your talks with your actions. Let her know that you like her, let her know that you want her to feel that you do care and like her.

Do not try to cover it up, but show it and prove it to her.