Making Your Ex Want You Back

Did you just find out that she is leaving you? Want to discover how to make your ex want you back?

Guys can very often find themselves depressed when they're dumped by their girl. It's a accepted truth- the despair can last from one - four weeks. Within this period guys barely leave the home and go out only for work and do vital things like shopping for groceries. More often than not if the pain of a new breakup is too unpleasant he will not even go to the office for a number of days. The reason behind this is straightforward, when our ex-girlfriends breakup with you, it usually is both a giant hit to your pride and a dramatic change to our lifestyles.

When our girlfriend drops the ice cold water bucket of the breakup, we go into panic. It might seem so unforeseen sometimes that we are left wanting to know if we did something wrong. Did she meet someone else? Our minds are sometimes filled with a lot of questions and the abrupt loneliness can send us into misery and sorrow.

If you would like her back, the worst thing you can do is have a pity party for yourself, and even worse is making it apparent to your ex that you are feeling sorry for yourself. To make your ex want you, this is the last thing you want. It's fine to permit yourself a couple of days of expressing your feelings of loss. It can be normal to feel awful and you should not fight back your emotions. But soon, you need to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, put on your best clothes, and hit the streets like they were yours. Whether or not you’re still feeling down, put on a happy face and have the rest of the earth think that your life could not be better. If both of you have any shared friends, the information will not take long to reach your ex girlfriend, and she'll begin to ask herself if she made a good decision.

Stop yourself from calling or e-mailing your girlfriend, not even to ask a friend about her. It is best to act like she never was even part of your life and build up yourself much better than ever. Trying your hand at a hobby may be beneficial or cracking open some of those novels you have gathering dust that you intend on reading “on a rainy day” can help you pass time. Everyday living must continue on like nothing happened. No seeing other women though, if you are out with your friends in a bar or somewhere, you should hit on women. Just chatting and a little bit of flirting will do. Making her jealous is a great technique to make your ex want you, but if your ex starts to think that you’re literally seeing someone else, she may believe you’ve got over her and she may well start looking for someone new herself.

Also keep away from places where your ex girlfriend goes to.  Going to these locations could make you seem desperate to find out what she's up to (and that's not what you want her to think about you). It's a good suggestion though to visit nearby spots where your ex-girlfriend may see you out having fun. This may make her doubt leaving you and she will want to learn why you look to be taking things so well. She will wonder if she made the incorrect decision and it will make your ex want you back.

Let the water boil a while, so to speak. Your girlfriend probably has some hazy idea that you’re out and doing excellent without her. She will definitely notice that you are not phoning, e-mailing, and text messaging her like all her other ex boyfriends. Gradually the desire will overpower her and she'll start to reach out to you.

You must act bit by bit, seem casual and relaxed, and win back her heart. Keep in mind, even though she is getting a hold of you doesn’t mean that you have won her back, it just means that she is is curious and that things are beginning to turn to your advantage.  So handle things gradual and continue drawing her in.  This will certainly make your ex want you bad.