My Suggestions in Regaining Your Girlfriend

The fact of the matter is that she left you because of the mistakes you have made in the relationship. She didn’t leave you because some other man was hitting on her, it was because of the pre-existing issues that you had in your relationship with her. This is actually good news because it means that things can still be salvaged. The breakup can still be stopped at least before it’s too late.

Cool your thoughts down, then review any recent behavior which may have led up to the break up. Study the whole thing with a objective mind. If you did anything to screw things up, you should face the problem and take responsibility for how things happened. What did you do that made her no longer want to be in a relationship with you anymore? Could you tell that a breakup was beginning to loom on the horizon or did it just appear to come out of the blue? What was the first thing that seemed to go in the relationship? You should keep the below tips in mind in order to bring your ex back. Try to think back to when the both of you first started dating and everything seemed so easy. Think back to when you first met each other and you were just new “friends” spending time together and enjoying getting to know each other.

This is essentially the kind of guy you have to be. Keep in mind that your girlfriend fell in love with you the times you were happy and enjoyable to be with.  Not while you were frustrated and needy to get together with her. To win back her affection, you'll want to be the man she fell for again.

Take it slowly, and don’t rush things. Deal with this like you are just starting to see a new woman for the first time. Go out with her for coffee. This seems rather relaxed and probably will not make her feel like you are trying to make up with her. When you get together with her talk about light and funny stuff. Avoid bringing up major things like your relationship. Enjoy yourself, make her have a good laugh and recall the good times. Keep the dialogue fun and engaging, start making a move on her as if she was a girl you recently met and are planning to get her interested.

If the first coffee meeting goes nicely, don't stop seeing her. Once again, you must be sure that when you hang out with her, you are the same cheerful and laid-back man that she was attracted to from the beginning. This shouldn't be challenging or complicated to do. Actually this is you, the genuine you. Work your charm just like you did when you began dating in the beginning. Treat her well and make sure that the two of you have a nice time.

Please don't push her to take you back or anything. If you ever bring up the topic too early, she could walk out once and for all. Try to remember, you aren’t the only one that has been hurt here. She probably has some heartbreak of her own to manage. But it is a good sign that she is going out with you. This means that she has trust that the both of you can last in the end and you’ve got a decent chance to earn back her heart. Tread slowly and be patient if she loves you and has thoughts of the good times you shared, she will come back.