Online Dating Tips: 3 Ways to Lower Your Risk Factor

Feb 12
08:18

2009

Daryl Campbell

Daryl Campbell

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The fact that it is one of the few industries to prosper during these tough economic times tells you that online dating is becoming THE meeting place of the 21st century. But with more growth and the wide open nature of the internet, comes more opportunity to jeopardize your online dating experience.

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While many businesses around the globe are experiencing some tough economic times,Online Dating Tips: 3 Ways to Lower Your Risk Factor  Articles there seems to be at least one industry that is flourishing. In the United States last year over 500 million dollars was spent in on line dating. That number is expected to grow like wildfire in a few more years as is the number of internet dating sites which are becoming more and more niche specific.  

That in most cases is the future of internet dating. Smaller services will be just as prosperous as some of the current online mega companies without feeling the need or pressure of having to compete against these places. What of course will be beneficial to many of these businesses large or small is the advancement in technology. Internet dating is bound to get more interactive. In all likelihood it will grow from the instant chats and webcams to pert near feeling like your cyber date is sitting in the same room with you.

But with explosive growth, it becomes more and more crucial to protect yourself in the cyber dating world. Not just fly by night companies that spring up, guarantee results and then disappear with your money but also those individuals who are not interested in anything except what they can get regardless of how it impacts anyone else.

Therefore exercise proper precaution when it comes to: 

1. Choosing Your Online Dating Service

Should go without saying right? Except that many of us get caught up in the companies dazzling sales pitch without doing any real homework. The best way to check out an internet dating service is to ask someone who has used it. Hopefully that person is someone you know and trust. If you cannot find anyone in your immediate circle, than go to some of the forums and see what's cooking. People have no reservations about sharing their on line dating experience whether good, bad or indifferent. See if anyone is talking about a site you would like to join or get in and start asking questions.

2. Rules and Regulations

All on line dating sites have them (or should) but so few of us actually read them. The print may look boring and too small but having a clear understanding of what the company is offering can save you misunderstandings and headaches. You could wind up having a bad experience with an on line dating service because you believed something that was not spelled out in the fine print. Whatever dating site you are interested in joining take the extra steps to see EXACTLY what they are offering and the parameters that go with it. 
 
3. Avoid Straying

You have done your homework and signed on to a dating site. You wind up meeting someone and the two of you really start having some great chats. Now suddenly the other person has a "wonderful" idea. Why not drop the dating service contact system and start communicating more directly using your primary email address? Not a good idea. This is one of the many ways scammers work. The whole point is to move you to a place where their activities cannot really be monitored. Then they lay it on thick when it comes to playing with your emotions as a way to manipulate you. Stay within the dating services structure and report anything suspicious.    

Not only is on line dating becoming mainstream but it is also moving into territory that is more interactive and niche specific. There are a lot of opportunities to take advantage of but the more on line dating grows the more important it is to take action and ensure your dating experience becomes less risky.