Relationships: Want To Mend A Broken Heart Fast?
Do you know that a broken heart from a previously failed relationship is one of the greatest impediments to a) having another relationship and b) having a successful relationship?
Much like a real landmine the trauma experienced from a failed relationship lives on as what I have referred to as an "emotional landmine" deep inside the subconscious mind. That mine largely consists of the memory of that relationship failure and anything else that is associated with it i.e. betrayal, abuse, rejection, abandonment and jealousy, etc.
Sadly this stuff never actually goes away rather it continues to manifest in future encounters with others as:
1. Feelings of mistrust. 2. Feelings of insecurity. 3. Fears of more betrayal. 4. Fears of true intimacy. 5. The inability to be open and honest. 6. Fears of sexual intimacy. 7. Tendencies to control or manipulate. 8. Feelings of neediness. 9. Clingy behaviours. 10. Fears of abandonment. 11. Avoidance of new relationships altogether.
And much more.
As I'm sure you can see this can severely damage one's ability to succeed in their relationship life. This is the reason that so many individuals find themselves going from one failed relationship to another. The old "scars" behave as a true and irreparable wedge preventing them from fulfilling this particular desire.
The crucial question now is can anything truly be done to erase/delete those old scars once and for all?
If you appreciate the nature of the problem I think you will see that complete deletion of the memory and its associated pain is the only real solution as nothing short of that will remove the threat.
A decade ago it was discovered that negative memories could be rapidly, easily and completely erased to the point the individual harbouring them felt as if they never actually happened. This meant that one's life could effectively start afresh on a clean and new slate.
Now for most this may be difficult to fathom as it is not a common human experience. What has been learned however is that by erasing such negative memories not only is the person freed up from the threat of re-emerging old pain they are also literally brought back to life. What do I mean by this, you ask?
Well it turns out that negative memories are not only responsible for all the negative thoughts and conditioning that stifle one's Authentic Self expression they also behave as what I call negative Life Force Energy Parasites that deplete life force energy from the mind/body rendering the individual unconscious and depleted of their rightful positive resources i.e. self confidence, self esteem, self worth, inner peace, joy, optimism, clarity, sense of purpose, self respect, personal integrity, a sense of well being, health etc.
In other words they are there to literally to kill you! So when they are erased one finds that Life Force Energy spontaneously returns to the mind/body and the person comes progressively back to life and feels steadily more empowered.
This then ushers in the re-emergence of the self assured and emotionally independent Authentic Self who is able to resiliently and confidently enter into new relationships.
So if you are one of those individuals whose relationship life remains stuck due to old painful feelings of heartbreak and you would like to become free kindly visit the web site below where you can request a free introductory telephone/Skype consultation of a powerful new coaching process that will begin to take you there.
Nick Arrizza, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor is now an International Expert Life, Relationship & Spiritual Tele-Coach, Author the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance Process® (MRP).
A Free 1 Hour Introductory MRP Telephone/Skype Consultation and a Free E-copy of my new book are available upon request. (You will be asked to cover your own long distance telephone charges)
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