The Best Way To Get Her To Really 'Want' You

There are many times when you'll "want" a woman.  In this article, you'll learn how to reverse the situation and create these same feelings in a woman.

How do you get a woman to "want" you? 

Well this is a question I get ALL the time from my readers.  Many guys who write to me have this problem.  They meet attractive girls, but don't know how to create that emotional spark.

Fortunately the answer is simple.  In order to get a girl to want you, attraction must be created.  Now to be honest there are ton of ways you can create attraction.  Most of them involve the proper kind of body language and the use of cocky/funny techniques.

But there is an EASY way you can make a woman instantly want you when you meet her.  It's simple, all you have to do is:

Accuse HER of hitting on you!

Here's what I mean...

The next time you're talking to a woman, look for specific comments or body language traits which can be misconstrued.  Then make a joke about how she is showing signs of her wanting you.  If you can say this comment in a funny & playful manner, you'll create an entire dynamic about how she's trying to hit on you.

Then during certain points in the conversation, you should mention how she REALLY likes you and is being obvious about her attempts "to seduce you".  Furthermore you can tell her that you MIGHT consider going home with her if she "doesn't do anything to screw it up". 

Now there is a key principle behind using this technique.  Whenever you implement it, you must have mental congruence where you actually develop that attitude that she truly DOES want you.  If you approach every interaction with the attitude that a woman has feelings for you, then it'll be easy to display a confident and funny attitude around her.

Women love this!

Now if you're having trouble thinking of what to say, here is a specific example:

Her: "Well it's getting late.  I think I should get home..."

You: "Dude, I'm not that kind of guy.  I don't appreciate your ploy to get me back to your house and trying to take advantage of me."

What's funny about this technique is by accuse her of "wanting you", she'll actually start to develop these feelings.  If you can add this dynamic to other body language and attraction building techniques, you'll quickly build up some sexual chemistry between you and this woman.  Then it'll be easy to quickly make things more intimate.

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