The Many Places to Meet Women

Are you one of those people who is lucky enough to live in a city where there are beautiful women absolutely everywhere? Every time you turn a corner, you can feel the estrogen level around you. So why are you still struggling to find a lover? If your city is as filled with beautiful single women as you believe it to be, why are you having so much trouble finding them? Where are they hiding?

They are hiding right under your nose! One of the most common questions that people turn to the experts about is where the best single women are hiding. The amusing thing about this question is that it is absolutely the wrong one to be asking, because women are everywhere. The question that you should be asking instead is when is the best time for you to approach a woman? After all, at this point you should already be well aware of where the women are, you just need to figure out how to go about approaching them.

Let's look at one of three situations where you can approach women, known as the POT, or Pickup One Time. Unfortunately, many men get burned here because they are absolutely unaware of how to approach. There are a number of different ways you can approach women here, including: Walking in the street, waiting in lines, restaurants, concerts or bars, elevators, shopping and at movie theaters.

In all eight of these cases, your absolute best bet is going to be to approach in a way that addresses three things: Her security, her availability, and her limited amount of chatting time. You need to utilize a approach that is sincere and polite, and that allows her to know that you are absolutely harmless, that you find her absolutely attractive, and that you are interested in knowing if she is available. Start with something like:

"Hi there. I couldn't help walking by without talking to you. But before I say anything more, are you single?"

Here she is either going to say, no, or yes. If she says no, the game is over. Thank her, wish her a nice day or evening, and move on. If she says yes, you can follow up with something like this:

"I'm single too. My name is John, and I hope to get to know you. Would you like to go out for a drink sometime?"

It has been recommended in the past that you outright ask for her phone number, but this is sloppy. Don't be pushy. If she's interested, she'll find a way to let you get in touch with her - You should not need to ask expressly for it.

While you may get a cold shoulder from some women, most will be flattered that you were bold and brave enough to approach them. Do not give up if you get the brush off, just keep practicing and sharpening your flirting skills, and you will get it right.