Vintage Rings : How social networking can help knowing your Boyfriend

A wise sage once compared the traits of personality to the skin of onion. When you think you have reached the center of the onion, you find another skin ready to be removed. Similarly, to really understand the true nature of someone, one has to really dig deep. The current era of social networking has opened up a number of ways to explore the personality of others and to know their true nature. The entire process of exploring the true nature of someone becomes even more critical if that other person is your boyfriend and you are planning to tie a diamond wedding band on his wrist. A majority of men are casual about their feelings and are therefore easy to explore, some however, are a difficult nut to crack. Though not full proof, the following suggestions may help you in exploring the nature of your boyfriend and help you in knowing him better before you finally tie him the men’s wedding band.

First and foremost, be discrete about your mission and do not share the findings with anyone. It is a common psyche to go inside a cocoon if one feels that someone is trying to hunt him down. To know him inside out is like hunting him down. You can know him better only when his guards are down. But if he suspects that you are trying to hunt him, he may never let his guards down, making your task difficult. So, be discrete.

The five most critical traits of an individual that should be known before walking the isle and tying him the wedding band are his commitment level, ability to fake, danger seeking skills, humor level and mental fitness. Though experts and psychiatrists have created several thousand questions to know the above traits through psychoanalysis, there are quick fix ways to find how your boyfriend fairs in each of the above by simply observing his social networking ways.

His status on social networking site is the best indicator of his commitment level. In case the status is committed, you can be sure that he is serious about you. In case you want further confirmation, a friend can be used as decoy to lure him into vulnerable situation. However, ethical stance of this trap can be debated; the idea on your boyfriend’s commitment level can be ascertained with surety with a well laid trap.

One simple test can be used to access multiple traits. Try cooking something for him. Deliberately spoil the food and then on social networking site ask him about his experience. If he lies, he is hiding his feelings. If he is rude enough to tell you on a social networking site that your cooking is horrible, he is a danger seeker and if he is polite in telling you that the dish you cooked last time was better that the one in reference, he is a safe player. Looking at the jokes he has responded to gives a fair idea on the humor level of any person and the bent towards technical stuff gives idea about mental fitness.

In all, if you pay enough attention to the activities of your boyfriend on his social networking site, the eye for detail can help you in knowing your boyfriend and help you in finding the right person to tie the men’s wedding ring.