What is true love?

It’s no wonder why the divorce courts are usually busy as a result of mismatch; thinking it's true love while it's just another infatuation. As a result of this misinterpretation of rightful relationship partner that’s why relationship expert, Lazarus Puakonah cautions lovers and spouses to always date at least 2years before heading for the altar.

What should I know about true love?  Based on my research, it’s certain that, majority of people who broke up or divorced early in marriages wasnt because of the marriage its self but based on other personal self-persuades. For instance, it's certain that those who jump into relationships/marriages in order to escape certain unwanted experiences are likely not to experience true love in their relationships and for this, the outcome is divorce/breakups.

Never get into a relationship just to change social class or as a core of solution to your unmet needs. This equally means that for you to experience what true love looks like, you must first start by putting the relationship ahead of other self-interest only then can love exists.

What is true love or real love?

There’re many qualities that determine what true love is like but among these qualities, one of the strongest happens to be the ability to love you for who you are and not what they hear or your dark side. Many of these our so-called relationships existing today is the case. They only accept in your present but say quit the reverse to others.

George usually tells Marilyn that she was very beautiful and she's all he needs to be completed. But this wasn’t what he tells others. When confronted, he tells his parents she’s just another friend. At least it's understandable that he mightn't want his parents to start placing judgments. But to certain degree the love existing between them isn’t really true love because Gorge also tells others like friends and neighbors she’s just a good friend and this is not one of the qualities of a good partner.

Maybe there were certain ugly things about her but if he has accepted her, he ought to also accept everything of her as well. Someone experiencing true love for you doesn't mind about your dark side or your poor background. He'll totally accept you for who you are no matter the circumstances or anything about you and he’ll be proud of you at all times. He doesn’t have to hide your true identity or give false impression for social approval (see the 7 qualities of a good partner).

True love is accepting the good, the bad, and the ugly

Are you sure of any perfect human being (forget what you see in the movies)? Certainly not! Then what if you made slight mistake and it turns out to be something else, do you think this is true love? It can still be, but if this is a routine that every slight mistake calls for shouting, quarrels and blames, this is out of love.

True love doesn’t know whose fault it is or who initiated the mistake. Both partner just openly admit and when necessary, they make apology. They just do it with ease. During most of my couching seasons, it usually takes me less than 2days with a couple to determine the kind of love they share. This is because I know most of the qualities of true love and when interrogating them, I try to spot out these aspects.

To cut this shot, true love knows nothing such as misunderstanding, quarrel and their elder brother; breakup. If you manage to ask any successful couple what they’ve experienced over their years, they’ll probably start by telling you something such as “the base of our relationship all this while has been nothing but genuine love for one another…”

True love is what you feel not what you listen

Do you think true love can be influenced by external forces? This question might surprise you but I want you know that I’ve met many divorced couples that their being divorced were rooted by influences from people out side their marital life.

But this is quit the reverse when experiencing real or true love. When a good partner receives a comment about his partner, he/she doesn’t confront the partner but talk it over with them and this projects a sign of true love.

If someone is experiencing genuine love for you, he/she doesn’t move by external pressures from friends, relatives or parents. No matter what, he/she will always be there for you even in your down times.