When She Needs Time to Think About the Relationship

Have you ever been in a situation where you meet someone you have interest in and after going out with him for a short time, you think and feel that she is the one for you? Unfortunately the situation is not so smooth for you because she has so much considerations in her mind about the relationship because she has been hurt badly by her last boyfriend.

The worse part is that she does not want to end the relationship, but on the other side she is afraid of getting hurt or you being hurt by her so she decided to ask for more time to think about your relationship. Most of the time, your reaction for this kind of situation is that you start to stay away from her to give her space and time to think. If this condition keep on going without any one decided to break the ice and start to work things out then the result is pretty obvious, your relationship will fall apart and you can start looking for a new one.

The number one help for this situation is to take a time out for yourself, think clearly and carefully about her and your relationship. Consider all the important aspects of your relationship, most importantly her character and the things that attract you to her. Finally, is she really the one you want or not, is she really the one you want to be with? If the answer is yes, then it is time for you to take action.

You need to be the one who break the ice and start the communication with her. Assure her that you care for her and you will do everything you can to keep the relationship with her. But you need to address clearly that you can not make it yourself, you need her help and it is her responsibility to take part for it.

If she decided to take part in making the relationship works then you should go for it, but if she still hesitant and can not decide then my suggestion is that it is time for you to let her go. This is the fact and the truth, a relationship needs effort from both sides. You need two hands to make a clap happen, meaning you need effort from both sides to make this thing work.