Why You Should Stop Obsessing Over One Specific Woman

There are going to be times when you find that you just can’t shake one certain woman. Eventually, you find that you are obsessed with this one woman, even if she not a woman you can date. You are not alone. So many men have found themselves in this situation that there is actually a term for it. You are facing a "one-itis."

A man has the one-itis when he is obsessed with one woman. They may even find that they desire this one woman so much that they avoid any attempt to even date other women. This is not a healthy situation or attitude to have.

But, we’ve all been there. We have all found ourselves stuck on one certain girl but making no progress. She simply will not reciprocate the feelings you have for her. This is typically the case with one-itis regardless of whether or not she is a friend or a woman from a past relationship.

This article is not about getting her to reciprocate those feelings, though. The only thing I can guarantee you is that not moving out of the one-itis will not get you where you want to be. What it will do for is, though, is cause you to miss out on many opportunities to meet other women.

My advice is to just stop obsessing over her. Rip the band-aid and snap out of it. Otherwise, you will just end up disappointed and more frustrated but definitely not closer to her. Rather than waiting on her to "come around," go out and live an active, full life with a variety of women in it.

I’m not even talking about potential women to date. They can be friends, casual lovers or women with more serious dating potential. The choice is yours. Regardless of the women you fill your life with, you will soon enjoy the many benefits of not obsessing over one woman and enjoying the company of other women.

If anything, having a variety of women in your life will keep you out of the one-itis.  But, you will also find that you are happier with your new, fun-filled life. Further, women will find you to be more intriguing and attractive. With so many women in your life, they will assume you must be a great guy and want to be one of those women in your life. Women don’t like to be left out. Use this to your advantage!

Eventually, you will see first-hand why obsessing over a woman is NOT the better option when it comes to women. Even better is that you will find that you just don’t obsess over one woman anymore. The one-itis syndrome will be soon be forgotten as you continue to enjoy your happier, fuller life. And, the success you find with all women will be enough to keep you from getting the one-itis again.

More likely than not, the woman you were obsessing over will soon realize that she can be replaced and change her thinking.